Is my fiance overly jealous?

Me and my fiance have a long distance relationship. He's in the military and I'm in college. Last night we were on the phone discussing money currency and I mentioned a male friends I had in 5th grade who would move back and forth between indiana and india. In india he ownes a marble house. My fiance got extremely pissed off that I brought him up and started yelling saying that I have boytoys and he doesn't want to hear me talking about other guys. He called me materialistic and hung up on me. I talked to him today and he's back to normal and refuses to discuss the little incident. Is this normal? He's extremely confident so I dont totaly understant where this comes from. Any ideas?

first of all, your fiance has no right to raise his voice at you irregardless of the situation. you are his soon to be wife and he needs to treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve. you're going to be the wife of a serviceman and you're in college, you dont need anymore stress.

second, unless he has concrete proof that you're cheating, he does NOT need to accuse you of anything. if I were you I would consider this a Freudian slip and perhaps he has some secrets he should be telling you, but instead of being honest about them, he's trying to find a fault in you so he wont feel as guilty. my opinion is a little bias because I have no tolerance for men who act all macho and yell at women. I consider that verbal abuse, and that was a punk move on his part.

third, an apology is in order. and if he refuses to apologize and talk about how he over reacted than the two of you need to have a serious talk. maybe he was stressed out or out of it or something, but that gives him no right to take it out on anyone, especially you.

HOWEVER...
I cant think of many guy friends from 4th 5th 6th grade that I know their name, let alone their places of residence how many years later. if this is a guy friend that you keep in contact with and is basically your best friend, you need to let your fiance know that the two of you have no attraction to each other and it is strictly platonic. I couldnt be attracted to someone I knew that long anyways. if your fiance cant respect that friendship then I dont know. he needs to get over himself.

not to justify his actions, but it sounds to me that he's been around guys and guns and bravado for far too long and misses you. when's the last time the two of you had a lazy sunday in? or went for a walk? or even sat down together face to face? he loves you, he wants to marry you. the two of you need to communicate more though. he is going to a profession that he could die in. dont let this incident ruin your relationship. it takes a strong person to willingly sacrifice their life and time for their country. it also takes a strong person to make a long distance relationship work. I have faith in both of you. let me know how things turn out!