Is it safe to cut your labia?

K I know this is a stupid thing to do but I am desperate!!! Is it dangerous to cut your own labia? I know its normal to have big labia but mine are deformed, I have 3, like the third one is attached to the other one.. Grr I dunno how to explain it but it...

looks gross. And I am too shy to go to the doctor... I havent even told my mom, or best friend. I am desperate to cut it. It bothers me and its very uncomfortable. I know its gross but it has to be done... Or ill never have sex!! Ps im a virgin.. And im 18 years old. I have been asked out a lot of times , guys think im hot, and people think im this perfect girl... But they dont know I have this huge problem and insecurity. I hate my vagina.. If I cut some of the tip, maybe like an inch, I know ill be happy... But is it dangerous?? Will I bleed a lot? Ill freeze it with ice.. I know I sound weird but its really bothering me

It will bleed *a lot*

Anyone who has accidentally nicked themselves there while shaving can tell you. Don't do it, it could get infected, etc.

Hey I think thats not such a good idea caz you dont want to hurt yourself. I know it might be hard but I would tell my mom or mabie a close family member about this .

no, that's not safe at all!
don't even consider doing that.
see a doctor-
there's nothing to be embarrased about.
people get it fixed all the time.
it would be extrememly dangerous to do that yourself!