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Is it ok to feel like you want to die over losing a guy?

peace Asked by sillygirl2011 about 1 year ago, 7 answers.
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is it crazy to feel like you want to die over losing a guy???

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Answered by juicydee on Aug 18, 2007, 12:50PM
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Girl, please! It is not that serious!! No man, no person is worth feeling like that. If they do make you feel that way then MOVE ON! Women are queens & shouldn't be treated less than such!!! NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE 2 MAKE you FEEL THIS WAY!

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Answered by iluvhimsoooundeniableymuch on Aug 18, 2007, 11:21AM
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well its not a crazy thing my first boyfriend id ever had cheated on me after 4 months and I desperetly wanted 2 die I was cuttin myself and overdosing on many diff. things my friends got very worried and so did my rents whenever I got really deppresed and was always either cryin or sleepin finally I started failin school and got kicked off the track team I had 2 get therepy and I felt better then I got a new boyfriend and he beat the sh*t outta my ex

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 18, 2007, 11:40AM
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No it's not Crazy I lost a girlfriend due to my stupidity one time and it hurt for a long time. . . But I survived.

Hello All! Answered by iwannabe_laelaali on Aug 18, 2007, 11:53AM
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Simply put - NO - it is not crazy to feel this way once a relationship ends. Your ex became a part of your life for a duration of time. You became used to his phone calls, his presence, the physical aspects, and the intimate memories. However, in addition to feeling this way, you have to consider all the of the reasons why you broke up with him. Did he mistreat you? Did you fight too much? Did he cheat on you? Vice versa. The number thing you have to recognize is that you have to look within yourself to find fulfillment. You will never overcome personal inadequacies, emptiness, or unfulfillment through a man. You have to be fine standing on your own, and you must also recognize your strengths and strong points to overthrow negativity and despair. You look very young, so there are plenty more guys to come. You don't need him to live. Why should any man have that kind of control over a woman? The moment is temporary, and although it may feel like the pain will last forever - it won't. I promise you. You will look back ten years from now and wonder why you felt so wretched over this boy in the first place...I've been through the depression, the tears, the self-esteem breakdown - for months at a time. You will come out of it okay, and it will be a learning experience you. Time is the worst painkiller. When you date guys that present qualities you can't tolerate, you learn what it is that you want and what you don't want out of boyfriend. You'll learn to adhere to your own set of standards and become intolerable of familiar s*** you've experience before. Stay strong, go out with your friends more, take up a new hobby. Spend time being busy and exposing yourself to new people as you're trying to heal. Hope this helps!

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Answered by angelfire2708 on Aug 18, 2007, 12:35PM
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Of course we all have to experience that sometime in our lives, but the truth is, we all do survive, and it truly does make us all stronger in the end!

lol Answered by harmony on Aug 18, 2007, 02:25PM
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lot a teens feel that way, but no one should make you want to die. of course you feel that way sometimes, but ya cant let it get to you.

Answered by sondralynn13 on Aug 19, 2007, 03:14AM
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It it totally normal to feel that way. When you share your life with someone and then lose them, it feels like you lost a part of your life; I don't know if you are young, but breaking up seems much worse when you are. As you get older, you realize that you will find someone new. Until then, you just have to concentrate on what makes you happy: friends, family, etc. Focus on your life and you will move on. Eventually you will find a new guy-or he will find you! Although it seems like the end of the world, it isn't and when you are in a better place you will realize that. The trick is to stick it out.

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