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Is my girlfriend bored of me sexually?

Asked by wt84 about 1 year ago, 2 answers.

Ok, here is my situation. I was having a long distance relationship for about 5 months and I've relocated to be with her. We've been together, in person, for 4 weeks. This last week, she's been acting kind of odd. I'm not use to be around here, so...

I'm not sure what to think. She's been distant and not interested in having sex. It feels like we are an old couple, when we should be going at it like rabbits at this stage of the relationship. I think she is using a sex toy over being with me. She's told me about it, before we dated, she's been single for a long time, a toy comes in handy, lol. It bothers me that she's using it now while I'm in the picture, and at such an early stage of the relationship. She's made comments in the past, bigger is better, maybe I'm just not doing it for her, and she's bored already with me. UGH! I'm feeling very insecure right about now!

polaroid Answered by allexrutledge on Jan 16, 2008, 09:58AM
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well, a lot of times women use toys to explore their own fantasies to avoid doing it while they are with their partner so not to feel guilty about it. you could ask her what are a few of her fantacies. or, if she just doesn't feel like talking about sex. plan a whole night for her. buy that ky warming massage stuff. works great. massage her down, taking your time, not even thinking about sex. being sweet like that can definately lead to sex. after you've done the non-sexual places, you can kind of sneak your hand up her theigh to let her know you're thinking about that area...
hope this helped a bit

Echinacea 'Harvest Moon' Answered by pinkpearl on Jan 16, 2008, 10:53AM
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You've worried about this relationship from the beginning. Are you sure it's healthy for you? Are you sure she's not giving you the blow off? From everything you've written about her, she appears to be quite selfish. If thats wrong, then I'd suggest you go along with her bigger is better thinking and visit sex shops together. Buy bigger toys and use them on her. add some variety into your sex life. Try and communicate more about sex.

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