Is it bad to sleep with your ex-boyfriend's bestfriend?

My ex-boyfriend's bestfriend keeps asking me if I want to sleep with him and I feel like if I dont give him an answer I will end up sleeping with him. Is that bad?

Dear dancer08,

I wouldn't go all the way with this guy. I believe this friend of your ex is just trying to sleep with you because he wants to get laid. It's different if you're in a mature, stable relationship with a guy for a long amount of time. However, I think this friend of his just wants some action. Take my word - Do not sleep with him because I think the last thing you would want is to be used by a guy. It's not right for a guy to do that. It's considered a very, very selfish thing for pretty much any guy to do that to a girl.

Sincerely,
Danielle

yes it's bad, very bad. obviously he's a horndog. have some self-respect and just say f*ck off.

Don't sleep with someone unless you have been with them for a long time and have a good relationship. Don't put yourself out like that, not good.

Don't do it, Steph is right. Also you will look bad and have a bad name, imagine the guys talking ' A man, guess who I slept with last night?' ex- ' Who man, who!!' friend- ' Your ex man!' and the conversation gets worst from there.

do not sleep with your best mates ex trust me!!! would you like it to be done to you!!! I've had it done to me and its not nice!! trust me!! I hate the girl that done it to me and I was best mates with her for 20 years!!! shes my worst enemy know!!! dont do it if you love your friend!1