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Is he using me or does he actually love me?

Asked by dontpanic over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

I have been dating this guy for over a month and i am truly in love with him but all my friends are telling me that he is using me. I don't know who to believe. And I have been hurt alot before. He says he loves me and that he never believed in love...

before he met me but now his friends are saying that he doesn't really love me and that he just wants to use me. And he shows them private pictures of me etc. Now i don't know who to believe. im completely devastated.

blue lips Answered by lovehim82 on May 10, 2007, 03:07PM
38 answers

Okay, first off, tell him to stop with the pictures. They were for him wheren't they?
second, does his friends give you any reason to tell you he is using you?

Answered by angelfire2708 on May 10, 2007, 03:22PM
7802 answers

First of all, NEVER give yourself to a boy that soon into a relationship. Why do young people want to rush into everything before fully knowing and trusting that person? What on earth are you doing giving him private pictures of you? Save those for your husband someday, not a bfs who will be in and out of your life! Doesnt sound like this boy is really into you...except sexually. Id say your being used! Dump the loser before he dumps you!

yay yay yay Answered by antoninap on May 10, 2007, 03:28PM
113 answers

i agree with angelfire2708... if he dumps you first your ging to feel worse than is you had dumped him

Answered by eyeball16 on May 10, 2007, 07:27PM
32 answers

agreed... youll know if he loves you or not by how hard or long he tries to be with you again. if he does nothin u know it was a sexual thing. if he tries(not by buying you) to work things out every chance he gets and goes out of his way to talk to u and be with you, then youll know he cares. better yet tell him you dont wanna have sex with him for a couple months, see what he does. if he keeps pushing it like aww, common or why not youll know it was just for some action

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