Is he using me?

So I have been seeing a guy for about two and a half months. When we first met everything was great and we were really interested in eachother. However, now all he wants to do is talk about sex, sex, sex, like there's nothing else to talk about?? Plus,...

thats all he wants to do. Instead of having normal, intellectual conversations when we're together-he just wants to play. I asked him what he wanted from me and he just beated it around the bush. Then, the other night he claimed he wanted to be in a relationship with me but, I doubt he meant it. I asked him if all he wants is to mess around and have sex and he just can't seem to answer each and every time. I think he's bullshitting me, is he not??

ummm yeah hes using you srry 2 tell u

Yep... its the usage...

I will bet any yhing that he is a really young man becous I was ince like that thats all we thought about,the thing is he cant answer your qustion is becous he is not shure what hi wants the only thing he can think about is sex whith you it is the only form of comunication he naturally knows,everything else is just guy stuff he can talk about like hunting fishing cars or somthing also men get naturally turnd on by a woman really bad some times and cant keep it down.well good luck with him at least its you he wants and not some outher girl

SWEETIE...GO WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCT...WHEN you ASK YOURSELF THAT VERY SAME QUESTION,IS HE USING ME? IF you GET THAT BUTTERFLIES FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH.. THEN you GOT YOR ANSWER. I'VE JUST GONE THROUGH THE SAME BS AND IF you EVER NEED SOME1 2 CHAT WITH ABOUT IT EMAIL ME Fun mail me ANYTIME..WISH you ALL THE STRENGTH..TAKE CARE

Sounds like he's only wanting ONE thing from you! Move on.. he's only going to hurt you down the road.

Hmmm. So what's changed and only after 2.5 months?

Yeah, he;s using you. Maybe you should higher you standards and then you migth be able to find a real man. Not a horny boy.