How do I know if he's only using me?

Mk.. I really like this guy and we got together finally.. And we rnt dating but now when theres other people around he doesnt even notice me. He only wants me when we are alone but we dont talk much he just likes to do 'stuff' with me. Is he using me. Im so upset over this and also what should I do. Im ignoring him right now.

you should ignore him. I remember acting just like him around certain women. when I was alone with the girl it be all good. But around other people I'd act like I didn't like her, and it was because I was just using her. I used to be an as*hole

I would say he is using you. If he were really into you, he would show more interest in public. You deserve better.

Hmm... This is a sucky situation. Maybe you should sit him down and just tell him how you feel about the entire thing. Cause if you can't do that, then maybe you guys arent meant to be.

I typed like..a lot...but ig got deleted..but I dont want to retype it...so...we can just talk. I am here for you...
Even though you said not to worry...or that you wouldnt let this get to you

It's either he may be shy around other people to display affection or he's feels embarressed to be with you.

It's pretty much immaturity.
I say see how things go for another week and if it's the same scenario-- break up.

There are way more guys you don't even know about out there that will appreciate your company in any circumstance.

This is a very hurtful situation and you are right to feel upset and used. He is not respecting you or treating you right. You should put an end to this relationship right away. Whenever you are in a situation where you aren't feeling right always ask yourself if you would treat the person the same way. If your answer is no, then you know what that this person is not a true friend.

he is using u. you need revenge. jerks like that should be taught a lesson.

I was in the same situation and trust me honey.. it turned out bad. I got very hurt. you need to confront him and let this be his only chance. if he doesnt change then move on before you get in too deep. why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel this way anyways. you deserve better.

well a guy who really loves u, respects you and will do so in public. if he does not acck you in public its either he is embarrassed by you or just does not love u . A man should be proud of his love not shameful and yeah dunt let him use you plzzz take a stand . he is not like the last man on earth for christ sake ...u will get someone good trust me ...