Is he tired of me?

My boyfriend and I been going out for about 10 months now.but knew eachother for about 4years now and been together off and on we live together now and I miss the past, like the way he used to be how he used to kiss me all the time and everything was like sooo amazing, and now he dont kiss me that much or have sex that much only at night and before it was like 10 times a day... all he wants to do is play a game on the stupid internet. could he be tired of me?

The newness has warn off. You cant get feelings back to the way they were in the beginning of a relationship! 4 ys on, and off again, doesnt sound like a very solid relationship to begin with. Now you are living together, and you want him to treat you like he did when you first started dating? Things fall into the same old pattern day after day, night after night. Thats why I'm choosing to not live with my boyfriend. I think it just takes all the fun out getting married! People think that they should live with their partner before marrying, to see if the two of you are compatible. Thats bogus in my book, because love is unconditional. You fell in love, and no matter what he does that drives you crazy, or makes you angry (bad habits, not being very neat, etc.) shouldnt ever change your feelings about them! If they do, then it wasnt real love to begin with!

One of the many reasons divorce rates are so high amongst people who have "shacked up" before marrying is that they anticipate that things will change after they are married. Some people believe that ultimately being married will all of a sudden make life seem perfect and the other person will change. The reality for most is that it does not happen.

Many men living together never ending up marrying because many men simply do not feel the need to. If you look at it from a man's perspective, he is basically getting everything (and probably more than) a wife would give him without marriage, so why should he even bother?

The best solution is to not living together with someone if you are looking for a possible marriage partner. This will benefit women more than men, but it helps the marriage overall for both partners.

EITHER HE IS TIRED OF YOUOR HE JUST WANTS TO KEEP HIS MIND OFF OF A PROBLEM YOU TWO HAVE IN TTHE RELASHONSHIP

maybe it's not tired of yoo'h but he's just not sure where to go from where your at in the relationship. try talking to him. and about the sex, maybe just try something new, or maybe do something he really likes even if yoo'h dont like it that much. hope I helped