Is he just not into me?

Last night I downloaded He's just not that into you And now I'm wondering if the boy I like even has feelings for me.

I'll be a junior next year, and he just graduated. He's one of those guys who you learn to not expect them to be sweet.. so when...

he does sweet things it means a LOT.

He takes me out to eat and get ice cream, and go to movies and parks.. opens car doors for me, walks me to my door, and have been intimate with each other.

But it's been a while, so I talked to him about why he hasn't asked me out.. and his dad always rushes into relationships and they end up bad. He said he didn't want to be like that. I know his dad is really like that because he met a stripper 2 months ago, and they're engaged.. and now they're fighting.

If he's just using me this summer, and he's going to college in a different city.. I'd like to know. Should I just go with the flow and not saying anything? Maybe I'm being to nieve.

Do you think he's just not that into me, and is using me for a summer fling? Bleh.

yea, I think he really isnt all that into u. DUMP THE LOSER lol sorry but you gotta

I'm not with him... I'm asking if I'm just waiting around for nothing..?

but thanks

**Maybe I'm being to nieve,**Yes Hun, you are being VERY naive! First rule is NEVER, EVER give a guy free sex. Unless thats all your looking for. The only relationship you have going with him is a friends with benefits! If he hasnt properly asked you point blank to be his girlfriend, then you cant assume you are just because you spend time together, and are intimate. An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men are hunters, they enjoy the chase, and the longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart.

I hope you listen to that because its the truth! If your not in a loving, commited relationship DONT have sex!