Is he fake?

I don't know if the guy I'm dating is fake I'm scared that he's using me fir what he wants, I don't know why I feel like this because he's very sweet he buys me lunch makes sure ok happy and always asks me before he does anything I'm not sure how I...

actually feel. ** sigh+* this is a hard question. I'm usually the one with advice but please this time youtellme I really appreciate it I'm so confused and can't find my true feelings Bout this guy!

Don't give him anything he could possibly use you for until you are positive he's not that kinda guy - it's good to look out for yourself like this.

I think you need to pinpoint why you think he is using you and why you feel this way. Have you had someone use you before and he reminds you of that? Are you being confident and assertive and saying what you want or just agreeing with him because you like him. Any negative feelings in a relationship need to be addressed and for your own self respect and dignity you need to be honest and decide - if he is using you get out, stand up for yourself, go girl!

First off, how long have you been dating? Time is usually a good factor in determining these kinds of things. ALWAYS go with your gut instinct. If you feel he might be using you, he probably is. To avoid that take stephanies advice, and stop giving into him sexually. Young teens think that those kinds of things are a must in a relationship, but there is NO rule that says a girlfriend has to do anything sexual with her boyfriend. Especially being SO young. More times than any the relationship ends up focusing more on the sexual side, than the more important elements in a relationship, and thats why they never last. If you cant be together, and just enjoy one anothers company without always getting physical, then the relationship will most likely not survive long term.

Yeah, don't give him anything to where he can use you.