No respect

my fella always does my head in he say things like 'we will spend time together'. but like usually before I get back from work he has plans to go out somewhere he doesnt understand that I want to get home and get changed and relax for maybe 1hr before hitting the town again. does he show his friends more respect than me?? answer this question for me???

Dear bonnie331,
Now is the time to sit with your partner and discuss this. Relationships are all about compromises. If he is home from work well before you and is ready to go out by the time you get home perhaps you may want to meet him an hour later. Perhaps he may like to have a bath ready for you when you get home, supper made...telling him that this will speed things up and yes you get the royal treatment there. Behing honest with your partner about how you feel keeps happy relationships happy and may end bad relationships before they get too deep.
Sue...good luck