Intimacy

How long would you wait to be intimate with someone? I been with my boyfriend only 2 weeks now and I think we should wait a little longer to have sex but he thinks we should do it as soon as possible. He never pressures me or talks about it all the time....

He just askes me from time to time. We have known each other for a year or so he has always been interested in me but I had been in a relationship then. Now that we finally have gotten together I dont want to rush things. So how long did you or do you as in yourself wait to have sex with someone?

You've been with him for 2 weeks, he asks you * FROM TIME TO TIME*, yet he never pressures you?

No pressure is when someone constantly askes you about something and when your around them they try to force you into having sex with them. We have been talking long before we actually got together and so since im with him he thinks we should do it now. He has only asked me maybe 2 times

My question to you is how long do you wait before having sex with someone?

well I think you should sit down and talk to him and explain to him that your not ready to have sex because I know how you feel I had the same thing happen so my best advice is if he really loves you he can wait

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Whenever you feel comfortable with it and 100% sure that you want to do it. My boyfriend and I dated for 2 and a half years before we had sex for the first time. Mainly because I wasn't ready for it and felt that being in school sex could seriously jeopardize my future. I.e. possibly pregnancy etc.

So it all depends on you. Have a talk with your boyfriend about it and tell him that you aren't ready. If he loves you and respects you then he'll wait until you are ready. Mine did.

You should never have sex unless YOU are ready. And prepared to take steps to prevent pregnancy (condoms and BC pills). If all you want is a fling, that is your choice. But if you let him know that you want to wait, and he responds by leaving, or by going into a 'full court press', then realize that he was only looking for a conquest, not a relationship.

As far as how long, I know of guys that knew their ladies casually for over a year and dated for about 6 months before it became intimate
Take care and
Good Luck!!

Well I read Act like a Lady, think like a man by Steve Harvey. And in their it says you should wait at LEAST 90 days. because it shows you if he is with you for love or sex.and if he can wait that long, you will know that he is worth it. and stuff. you should read it. it's a very good book.

I'm only thirteen years old and personally do not have any experience in this area, but I ahve a friend who just found she is pregnant. She's only fifteen and she got pregnant because her boyfriend really wanted to have sex and she gave in, even though she wasn't ready. I've learned from that that the worst thing you could do is give in because there are serious consequences that could change your life in a negative way. I say you wait a couple of months at least and let your relationship grow before involving sex. It really does complicate everything... Good luck!!!