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How can I get my boyfriend's parents to accept that I'm white?

Asked by bananagirl about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

I'm Caucasian and my boyfriend is Mexican. He's lived with me & my family for almost a year, and since then his parents have gotten him to come home, by using false promises (or what I think are false since they aren't following through) to get him there, and to keep him there. Now his family is doing everything in their power to keep him home & to make my moving there impossible. It's driving me crazy...all my friends are telling me his mexican family will never let him be with me, never let him marry me.

Has anyone experienced this? Any advice? Please help!

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Junior Girl Answered by junior_girl on Feb 23, 2007, 04:22PM
| 365 answers.

Will I know Latino families are very strong and close...in a way I did experience this...it wasn't a race issue as much as an age difference, but he was told they (his family) did not approve of us being more than friends and it has ended everything...they respect their families and what they are told. I hope this works out for you, ask him to communicate with his family don't let it go too long before you know the truth. Good luck!!

me Answered by xxxcandy_girlxxx on Feb 23, 2007, 05:18PM
| 130 answers.

Wow I've never dealt with interracial problems but I go through age difference problems! My moms friend is mexican woman and she's going to marry a black man. And man they are so happy together! Like he's so friendly to her family and her family adores him as much as his family loves her. So I mean if anything, its just more of a time issue. Like over time if they see that you guys are sooo in love, then what are they going to do to keep you guys apart? You know they probably think you guys are weak so just let them see that the love you have for eachother is true and unconditional. Trust me, it takes time.

ME AGIAN LOL Answered by sam_13 on Feb 24, 2007, 05:19AM
| 437 answers.

well to me if he loves you then he will marry you no matter what his family says cause my family dotn like me datein african american but I still do and now they approve of it cause I told them they nt the ones in the relationship and that I am so just do your best to tell him that you love him and that you hope no matter what happens yall can always stay together and tell his family ? show his family that you are just a human no matter what color you are they should approve of yall bein together and if they cant approve of it then I dont know what else to do

Me Answered by locoluna on Feb 25, 2007, 03:47PM
| 2184 answers.

If he truly cares about you and wants to be with you he will stand up to his parents and do everything he can to be with you no matter what. Step back and observe how he handles this becos it is up to him seeing as tho its his family doing this not yours, this is a true test of how committed he is to you.

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