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Internet love?

Asked by desperatlynervous 5 months ago, 5 answers.

I've just recently met this girl online over a social site- she was introduced to me by a friend. last nigh we got to talking, and she seams realy nice, shes also very beautiful. I think im falling for her- only time will tell, but she has been the only...

thing on my mind since last night, and when she started talking to me again ten minutes ago, I was thrilled to my very core.

now I know the risks of online dateing (or whatever you want to call it) however this person has known my friend for quite a while, and im sure she isnt some fat bald 40 year old pedofile.

what concerns me the most is, she lives in kentuky, u.s.a. and I live in ontario, canada. the problem is, when I do fall in love with her, I fear I will be driven mad with greif, with not being able to see her, as im only in grade 11, and cant do anything (like cross the border and drive / fly to kentucky) for another year and a half- provided I have a car and/or money.

what am I to do? whats your opinion on the situation?

*and for the record, I am no pedofile- im 16 years old, and the girl in question, is in grade 9, so im assuming she's 14.)

Answered by liveinthemusic on Jun 21, 2009, 01:04PM

to be honest: I'm not sure it'll work out in any sort of dating situation, with you guys being so young, and so far apart. but that surely doesn't mean you should stop talking to her. go on being friends, if you're having that much joy out of talking to her, why should you stop?

Answered by slavaim (Online now) on Jun 21, 2009, 01:11PM
492 answers

I would take it as it comes, if it's meant to be sometime in the future then it's meant to be. Just take it slowly. She's been the only thing on your mind since last night? I can see why you think she is the one then wink As I say don't get bogged down with 'love', you've never even met the girl, just take it as it comes. Also I would stop with the paedophile hysteria, not that you shouldn't be careful, but far more likely is that the other people is socially inept and lonely.

Answered by aidenxx on Jun 21, 2009, 06:03PM
80 answers

I'm in the same situation. I've met this boy over an internet game and we've know each other for four years. Just over a month ago we've started to talk on the phone. There's also another problem, he lives across the country from me! sad but I would suggest that you take it very slowly and don't rush anything. Get to know each other better since you're not even sure about her age.