Should I have sex with someone I'm not in love with?

Hi,let's see let me start by saying im a 24 yr. old virgin.I want to have sex...I'm single right now...I have a "friend" but it seems like he only has time for me when its good for him,ya know-I hope I'm wrong but who knows about guys theses days? We've been in the postion before to have sex but when he asked me if I wanted to do something,I backed down..o boy did I want to.Soon after I went to the doc and got on the pill,just in case for next time..but there hasnt been a next time yet...what should I do?Now,I've kinda been thinking should I if it happens agin go through with it?I mean in a way I'd like to wait to be in love..but at the same time a girl has needs...A little help with this please.Thanks a bunch

I can understand your "needs".
But before you lose your virginity to "a friend",you need to decide whether or not your ready,and whether or not your willing to give that out to him.The first time you have sex is supposed to be special,with someone you love and trust.Are you really willing to lose your virginity to "a friend"?
If you are,just be safe about it.

Ok,, well really it depends on I f you want to, if you do not mind risking having his child then go for it... But really think it through, and make sure you will be able to face him even after it happens.. good luck. :]