Am i in love with my cousin?

im just 13 years old and i felt deeply in love with my cousin but his 14 year old know and last year when i saw him for the first time i think we felt the same thing but i wansn't shure about it . We watch movie togheter and played togheter .but then i...

had to leave because we don't live in the same contry. And this year when i was at school i forgotten about him slowly.But when my family and i went back to there house ,i felt in love with him more agsin. i think he still feels the same thing but less.But still a bit.He still helps me with stuff and almost every time he looks in to my eyes. What should i do i just can't forget him anymore. Can someone please give me advice?

Personally speaking there is nothing at all wrong with liking your cusion and please dont let other individuals opinions regarding feelings for him, as something wrong or weird, influence the way you feel towards your cusion.

It could possibly be that the two of you have a good relationship in terms of being good friends and due to that you have developed feelings for one another, and it sounds like a crush, but the decision lies in your hands, you could tell him how you feel and see where it goes from there.

(By the way, him making eye contact with you is a sign that he's intrested in you and if you both can feel something in each others presence then there is definately something there.)

Hope that was helpful enough. Mail me if you want further advice, i would be more than willing to help you out.

I don't think you're in love with him, when you're younger you feel things stronger, you could miss him a lot because you barely see him and think that's love.

Do you have any really close friends? Cause if not you could be relying on his friendship and seeing it as something more?

I'm not going to say it's normal, but it's not unheard of. I just think it's an emotional dependence on him.. I hope you sort it out.

if this is your first love then thats normal. i felt the same way about my cusin. you will get over it. Youll grow out of it and laugh about it later. Plus, its kinda weird to like ur cousin!

i didn't mean to say it was weird. Sorry. Idk what i ment, i think you shold roll w/ the flow and be friends.

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well i think if you guys dont live in the same country then why try to make something of it. your only 13 you still have a whole life ahead of you to enjoy so enjoy it. its just a crush. you should love your cousin but nothing more than just like you would love your family. you will eventually find another guy and move on =]]

You know what? peopel are just going to keep posting their replies and some will be against your situation, at the end of the day you don't need to act upon any of the advice given here, just follow your heart and what you think is right.

If it doesen't work out...your young, you'll learn from your mistakes and you'll move on.

i personaly think that you should just let it flow. do what you want to do, but nothing sexual your still young.=] and tell him how you feel, its good to be open.
i hope things work out.
-Tiffany

I know how you feel.My cousin is kind of cute and I saw him 4 years ago and I forgot about him and then I recently saw him(2 weeks ago) and then he looked cuter than ever but,nothing changed.I know it is kind of aqward but, he is still cute.He is my step cousin though.His mom and dad died and his sisters are awesome and I love him and his sisters.He is staying with my aunt and uncle and his too.I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!!

i feel the same way about my step brother and hes hot if yall could see him