In desperate need of advice! " cheating boyfriend"

I have a huge situation. I have been with my boyfriend of 11 years and he can not stop cheating. I have came across three different girls, one recently that is saying she might be pregnant by him. I have confronted him about it, but he will not tell me...

the truth. He embarrases me in front of his friends and family by calling me names and disrespects me in front of our son. I know he does most of his contacts to his female friends by his phone, should I go through his phone to check texting or phone calls??? Someone please give advice!! Thank you

Forget checking his phone, get your son and leave!!! After 11 years this man is disrespecting you, cheating on you and making a fool of you infront of everyone you know. Why do you want to stay with this man if he is one. He is cheating on you!!! and now he may have another child coming into the world, he does not deserve you! you need to get your child and leave him, i think 11 years of hell is enough dont you?

If it happens once, it will happen again. Why? If you stay with man or woman who has cheated on you, you've basicallly taught them that they can sleep with somebody else and you'll take them back. Thats pretty great news for them!
The first time someone cheats on you, he has the most to lose because he doesn't know what your reaction will be. But, once he's weathered the initial storm, he's knows exactkt how you'll react. By the time he's cheated on you twice, three times, thirty-eight times, he knows exactly what to expect. Lots of crying and screaming, followed by a few weeks or months of good behavior on his part. And then, he's on to his next girl!
Even if you manage to get past the lies, the heartache, and the ten pounds you'll put on with comfort food, a cloud will always hang over your relationship. You'll never truly feel cherished, or completely loved. And you deserve better than that. Why torture yourself with feelings of self-doubt and insecurity? Tell that cheater to hit the road, lock yourself in your apartment with your closest friends, a stack of sappy movies. Move on, and find someone who gives you the love and respect you deserve. You have the power here!! People will only treat you as poorly (or as well) as you allow them to. Now that you're weeding out the losers, try this: You'll only date people who treat you with respect and kindness and dignity. You'll only date people who are enthusiastic to be around you. From now on, you'll only date people who treat you as though you are a Christmas gift to the universe. This may narrow the field a little in the beginning, but once you get the hang of it, you'll have only the best dates to choose from.
There's no advice or magic wand to turn a cheater or abuser into a prince or princess.
Consider them a lost cause and move on. Once you set your standards back where they belong, you'll be able to meet and maintain a relationship with the kind of person you truly want to be with. So its all up to you, on how you want to spend the rest of your life.....

leAve him that is all i got to say he ant worth ur time baby u can find better