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Im too shy, my relationship is on a string! :(

Asked by swanseakid13 2 months ago, 4 answers.

Hey im sonnie, im 15 by the way. Im dating this girl who I've had a crush on for like 2 years and naw im finally dating her I cant even speek to her, im too nervous and shy ;( hers an example, my birthday just went and she got me these lovely chocolates...

and I only saod thank you like 5 times ( I should of gave her a hug like sad )
I would of 100% if she was alone or with like 1 friend of hers, but she was having a mini water fight so I couldnt sad I can only propoley talk to her on msn. I really hope I can just have the corage to talk to her more and give her hugs and that :/

Answered by hmmsigh on Sep 16, 2009, 08:16AM
180 answers

yhh dude you really need to start showing that you like her don't let her think you don't care or arent that intrested sad

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Answered by charliefarlie on Sep 16, 2009, 08:18AM
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everyone gets like this at your age and with maybe first girlfriends.. its all part of growing up lovie!
your just guna have to tell her how you feel and tell her your shy...
spend more time alone togetherthen you will grow in confidence and having a friend with her ext time wont bother you.

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Answered by swanseakid13 on Sep 16, 2009, 08:25AM
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thanks, and your right she is my first girlfriend and I want to show her how much I love and care for her but shes always around her friends, it would be alright if it was like 2 of her friends but shes always around like 10 of them :S
I do my best to impress her and make her proud do be dating me, I even started freerunning but I got pretty good and fell in love with the sport aswell as her :L
I just wish I could have her alone to talk to for like 10mins just to make it a better relation ship thnxs

Answered by lornalou on Sep 16, 2009, 09:31AM
62 answers

I have the same problem, buts its not around boys, its around my friends, but I think it can help if you get more confident? like are you a confidenet person? cause I dont think you will be, and if not then spend quite a while in the morning doing your hair, maybe try a new look, and wear a nice aftershave, if you look good, or think you do you will have a lot more confidence with in yourself, and want to talk more, also what I find funny and cute is when guys do or say little random things, or say silly jokes, sily small things like walking past a tree and saying hi to it, and making up a name, she should find this funny or cute :D and then just laugh about it, I hope this helps, and just keep reminding yourself that you only live once, and you just need to have fun , and have a laugh happy x

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