Im the school slut...but im still a virgin

Okay so...there is this guy. His name is donavan hes a year older than me and he wants to finger me and wants me to give him a bj...I want to do all this but im scarred because I've never done any of it before. But I cant tell him that because...well...

basically me rep at school is im a slut...so every1 expects me to have done all this. what do I do? PLZZ HELP!!=/

OKK W3LL iF YU DO NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHIN DO NOT DO IT B3CUZ YU N3V3R know what WILL HAPP3N and 2 MUCH STD.AIDsZ.and VIRUsZ OUT TH3R3 TO CATH IN JUST A MIN OR 2 SO JUST DO what YU THINK YU SHOULD DO and TRY TO STOP THAT school SLUT THIN B3CUZ IT IS A BAD IMPR3SSION ON YU

that is not a good rep I think you sud say nw that wud teach him to respect u

Lol you like to hold your rep as the school slut... dats a shame and what is wrong with not being the slut of the school

how on earth did you get the rep as a school slut? I would have hated it if it was me. there was nothing wrong with being a virgin, I was untill I left school. and to try and stop being a 'school slut' will be not to go around giving anyone all types of sex.
sorry I couldnt be much help but from what I make out from you is that your not a slut because sluts are people who go around and have sex with anything that breathes, which is obviously not you because like you said...you are a virgin and you havent given any type of sex. try and get yourself a good rep and then everyone will start to respect you. tell this guy you have never done anything like this before...and if he doesnt like it he might tell his mates and then you cannot be branded a slut anymore. to top it all off, when people abuse me I always ask them who they are to judge me??. so if someone calls you a slut turn around and say who are you to judge me because when you ask that question normally they cannot answer. and if you like this guy do what other virgins do with no help...do what you think and try to know what you are doing. if you need anymore questions needing answers just email me and I will try to help you...if you want to.
good luck and remeber there is nothing at all to be proud of being the school slut,

are you kidding me?

he's just using you.
doesn't like you.
you should never do anything like that if your not in a relationship.

you CAN get a STD from oral sex!

they probably think your the school slut, because you WANT to do that!

Do NOT do it its a waste of your sweet precious time as for the rumours ignore them their just rumours.When people talk trash about others its simply cause their jealous and very insecure
Our envy of others devours us most of all. - Alexander Solzhenitsyn.

How did you become the school slut if you've never done anything? I guess there must be a reason, or people wouldnt go saying that about someone...especially when everybody thinks it.
The only reason guys want you is for sexual purposes ONLY! Which means they will use you, and toss you aside.

Okay, so I went through a phase in 8th grade where I really liked attention from guys.. and I loved my body. I never flirted with guys, or dated any from my school. Girls saw me as a slut but I was really just a confident girl who was proud of how I looked and flaunted it. I only made out once then, I never had sex.. no oral sex. Nothing. But guys liked me and I got a bad reputation for it. You just have to ignore people like that and just laugh at them, I know I'm not a slut. Never have been never will be. You should be the same way, and not let it get to you. Once high school started for me girls grew up and realized that being confident is not the same as being easy. And there are girls who actually are skanks who deserve the label. Not me.

Looking at your pictures, and judging from your questions... your probably not misjudged if you act like a slut, your going to get the name. It's a no- brainer. So chill with the bikini pictures, eat-me-out hand thing pictures, and boob shots. Have some self- respect for yourself, and let guys get to know you for who you are.

ha ha ha stupid b1tch thats not a good rep you betta get on ya knees and protect ya rep dum@ss

Dont even sweat itt . Im the school slut too .. Only becausee there was this new boy and he thought it would b cool if he told rumorss .. But I dont even no why they believe himm .. I mean I havent did muchh . im justt turning a teenagerr .. Butt girl I no how your feelinng . Im very worried people havent forgot about thiss and I bet its like the same for youu well my advice iss .. Atleast have a relationship with this kidd any kind of relationshipp . Talk a lot get to no eachotherrr . dont let him get the best of youuu cause if you dont no him you dont no what kinda guy he iss ... Im young and I want to do that but at the sme time im scared and want to waiit but I have a boyfriend and me him are working out somthingg but anyone back to your problem .. You shouldnt care what people think cauee who are they to judge you ? all you need is your close friendss its not like your going to no these people foreverr plus I bet when they gt older there going to be doing twice as baddd ... But live your life the way you want!

just tell him you dont want to..and calm down yer rep!

If you want to-- do it

if you dont---dont

nothing wrong with being the school slut..
I know exactly how you feel

so do what you want...have fun and be reckless!!!

**note, people may not agree but this is coming from a 14 year old ***

^^ keep that in mind^^

okayy well having a rep as the shool slut isnt a good thing.. so why do you like it? I think you should tell him so he knows not to expect too much. other wise youll get hurt in the end when he finishs with you for not been 'slutish' with him. trust me I know how you feel, but yeah. let people know youv dont nothing. SCHOOL SLUT IS SO NOT A GOOD REP!

listen chick I was 15 and dating a senior we were parked at court house gap he started touching and well you know I was like no he said fine you will be known as the schools ugly fat slut forever and I was because I never did do him. four years of my life was heel I gained weight and never had a date. it suxed. now im graduated I met a guy at the lake one day he was into me he told me he knew what jake had said bought me and asked if it was true I told hi no it took some convinsing but he knus im not a slut ad he is the secound guy I've ever been w and im twenty

Well im a school slut too. It kinda depends. I've done everything with a guy except suck dick. All that. I get askd why all the time.
If this guy understands he won't make you do anything.just tell him you don't feel comfortable doing all this so fast. Just take a deep breath and relax. Talk it out. If hs the type of guy who just wants to get sum and show off ta his friends he aint worth your tyme.

Hope I helped. =]

school slut is an overused label. talk with the other school sluts im sure there will be more than just you. get a boyfriend that you really like and dont break up, your rep as a slut will quickly disappear if you dont do anything for a while (a month or so) but its completeley up to you when and where

well it sounds to me as if you dont personally like him so ild just say no unless you were in love with him should not have sex with him then unless you are in love with him but if you want to I say listen to your heart and do what you think is right

Babes, it's ok. I'm in exactly the same position as you are! I'm 14, I'm a virgin. My boyfriend wants me to give him a bj and him to finger me. What made it worse was another girl actually gave him a bj before we got together, and someone videoed it and showed everyone, but I'm still classed as the slut!
I just play along with it and joke around. I am sorta proud of the reputation. It makes me seem more 'streetwise' than I am =D

Well... If you feel insecure and scared then don't do it an anyways my boyfriend thinks I'm not a virgin sooo I played along with it but what is weired of all of it is not like most guys he never aksed me to give him a hb. Or any type of oral sex ... Not even sex well I think he's a virgin you see when I first started coin out with him he was shy and sorts felt uncomfterble then we had a talk about him being shy and Ect. Then that's when he aksed me out ... And ever scenes if we've been whaitin for the right time and the right time to tell him that I'm not a virgin ... LOL LOL LOL well the root of all I'm
Of this is that if you don't like what you are going though then just try to finns the right guy for yourself and makes you feel comfterble around him