Im stuck a little bit

alrighty ok this is going to be a little long sorry. ok so a little back ground info, we met almost 2 years ago and started dating and we lasted 6 months... all kinda of stuff happened, she got into drugs and she lost her viginity to her best friends...

dad and had sex again the next week and got prego and I got kinda fed up with it so I left, we didnt talk for real other than a few messages for almost an entire year.. and one day we just started talking again a couple weeks ago and we still felt it for each other and the opportunity comes up that her parents would let her come down here for the summer.. since I have started talking to her again she has cleaned up as far as the drugs go but sleeping around.. probably gotten a little worse. ok well a couple days after her parents gave the ok she said she didnt think it would be a good idea because of her temper and my sensitivity and its pretty much all my money paying for this... and that was like 2 days ago.. so she called me today saying her ex has been calling her house leaving threats and stuff and she changed her mind and wants to come down here for a get away I just dont know what to do there is a lot to weigh on both sides...

1 I love her
2 somthing we've been talking about for 2 years
3 I want to show her that all men arnt the same
4 this is my last summer to do what I want to
5 I dont always want to think what if
on the other hand
1 yes it is all my money
2 I dont want to be just a get away I want it to be more
3 she has a really bad temper and im afraid she will hurt me (physically and emotionally)(shes the kinda to say somthing really mean and throw a punch without thinking

well thanks for the advice if you do write somthin

I think that no matter how much you love her the girl needs to get her sh1t together before you even have a chance. she's got more going on with herslef and before she can love you like you love her she needs to figure it out. she wants a vacation and since you're paying it sounds like she's just going for the free ride.
I've been in this situation. and as much as you love them they need to get it together before you should so anything like that.

yea but what if I dont have the time to wait? I mean summer is wrapping up pretty soon and im going to be a senior in the fall, time is somthing I dont really have