What if i'm scared of losing my virginity?

im 17 and I dont wanna be a vergin no more but im kinda short and small but im so scared that it will hurttt.

Your height and weight have nothing to do with it. S*x should never hurt.

Before you can be ready for s*x, you have to know about it. If you don't know about reproductive anatomy, birth control, pregnancy, etc., then wait a bit more.

S*x should never hurt, but it often does. When s*x does hurt, it is almost always because the people did not bother to take the time to learn about it before they did it.

The most common cause of pain during s*x is lack of lubrication. If people just knew that, most of them could walk into walmart, grab a $10 bottle of water-based lubricant and avoid the pain altogether.

When women are in the mood, we make our own lubricant. However, some people are dryer than others, so they need the store bough lubricant. I also recommend store bought lubricant for first timers since if the girl is nervous, she might not make as much lubricant as she usually would.

The second most common cause of pain is being nervous. When you're nervous, you're muscles get tense. This can make s*x difficult or impossible. It can also make pap smears and inserting tampons difficult or impossible.

The third cause of pain is gynecological issues such as infections. They would require a doctor. That's why girls need to see an ob-gyn when they become sexually active.

So make sure you learn more about your body before you decide to have s*x. Learn about fertility, cycles, pregnancy, birth control, etc. Make sure you have access to birth control that you know how to use. Make sure you can get to an ob-gyn. Have STD protection.

If your scared for any reason...........you are NOT ready for sex! You should be proud that you still have your virginity. Young people are under a lot of pressure to lose their virginities, that is, to have sex for the first time. Having sexual intercourse with someone only because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something that you may not feel so good about later. You didnt mention if you are in a relationship or not........bad choice to wanna lose your virginity if you arent! Sex should be with someone you love, and trust with all your heart, and who feels the same way about you! Losing your virginity to just anyone can leave you feeling lonely, confused and hurt!! Sex is no foundation for love.

You are only 17 and many people wait much longer to lose their virginity. The thing is, you don’t want to do it just for the sake of doing it, because let me tell you something – you'll probably end up regretting that you did it with a jerk who stopped calling you as soon as he got what he wanted.
Sex is more than just a physical act, especially for women. It’s an emotional connection that you make with someone that you love. It’s the closest two people can bewith each other and your first time should be special. It should be with someone you trust completely, someone who loves you, and someone you feel comfortable with. If I were you, I’d save myself for someone that you feel 100% sure about. It will mean so much more in the long run. Good luck, and whatever you decide to do, please make youre safe! What is important is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing, and that you keep yourself safe. Being safe means not only thinking about physical risks such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), but also emotional risks such as the regret you may feel afterwards. It is also important to make certain that your partner also has those same feelings. It is above all a matter of mutual respect.

This is a decision you really need to sit down and think about, because making the wrong decision, just for the sake of doing something, could affect the rest of your life. Some regrets can be hard to live with!

If you are scared of losing your virginity, then don't. It's absolutely totally your choice, and, later in life, if you find a guy who really loves you, he's honestly not going to care whether you're a virgin or not.
I know tons of people who lose theirs much later - me included - and they have all been very happy that they kept theirs.
As a side note, size doesn't make any difference

my advice to you is wait until your a bit older before you decide to loos your virginity to some who really loves you. Obviously it will hurt for the first time, i know that it will be hard for you to realx when the time is right, but that i think is the best thing to do

First of all , you're far too young . Second off , it hurts for EVERY girl's first time . Sex is something a female's body has to get used to . It is painful uncomfortable EVERY female's first time . The fact that you didn't even know that goes to show that you're not ready , especially since you're trying to lose your virginity JUST to lose it .