Why am I so ugly?

I'm so ugly.:/
I'm 13, I'm 5'4 and I weigh 116 (since my depression)
Well I have low self esteem and I look like a guy more than a girl.
Well I know this because since 3rd grade almost ALL the kids in my grade treats me like crap.
Oh yeah and I burst into tears and cry a river every time I return from school because someone has teased me.
Well also they also say 'oh you're not white and pretty you cant wear American Eagle and Hollister because your light brown skinned of at least you can't be tanned colored like your mom'
But you know I'm sick of hearing my parents say 'Oh your nose and body and everything about you is so pretty' . I would burst out like 'rofl' because of my low self esteem.

So go ahead tell me how ugly I look in my picture.

First of all, I'm NOT going to say you are ugly - because you're not. Nobody is ugly. God made us all beautiful in our own spceial way. Your attitude sounds VERY negative about yourself, and I think this might be a reason for your depression. You must always find the most in life... you only live it once. Never look down upon yourself - people have physical features that others would die to have!! You're only 13 so lose the negative attitude and look up on life. Change your attitude and your life will change with it. Somedays I feel like I look better than others. It's all in my head. I actually have thought I've looked like a guy before too (I don't ever wear make-up by the way). IF you want, try make-up but I think people need to realize their natural beauty. Anyway, I outgrew the whole 'thinking I was ugly stage' and I see myself as a lady... that's what God made me.

And that comment about your skin color... it sounds like THEY are the ones with the problems. Skin color doesn't matter, even in beauty. Anyone can wear AE and Hollister and make it look good. They just need to grow up and learn to respect people. I've learned that if you don't let them (the people who make tease you) see that it hurts you, they back off a little more. Be the role model here and PLEASE don't sink to their level of maturity.

Parents set good examples for their children and don't lie to them. Lieing is something no parent should do. I can almost gaurantee that they actually mean all those comments they make about you.

**Live everyday with the most enthusiasm** <-- a motto of mine

you are definately not ugly.I just feel soo bad that you have such low self esteem.don't listen to the kids at school. tell them to go jump off a cliff!looking at your pic you have pretty eyes and nice shaped jaw.the bangs are adorable too!anyways I hope you feel better!listen to christina Agulaira's old song 'Beautiful'. that always makes me feel better when I feel bad about myself.stay strong!

You are cute. Smile. This will be known to you with the years to come. Stop doubting yourself.

HEEYYYYYYYY whenever I see someone like that I end up getting sad soooo cheer up and try to block out and ignore all the bad stuff people throw at you I do and im fine.

You are NOT ugly

You are sooo not ugly
I am...
>13
>5'11
>way over weight
>was a former tomboy [until my granny threw out all my clothes]
>and I have the broadest shoulders >.<'
Besides I love your hair x]

yeah I know but im so insecure and im not sure if someone is teasing me for these reason:
1.theyre jealous of my wardrobe

2.they want to impress theyre friends

3.I AM what they say they think I am

I mostly believe in number 3...but since im moving to a new school Ill have a positive attitude...who knows since nobody knows me maybe I would even get a boyfriend =]

Don't define yourself with a new boyfriend. #1 and #2 are more than likely the more logical reasons for this treatment. I remember this girl in High School who was suddenly beautiful. Before that she was mousy and teased a lot. Then one day I saw how beautiful she was and so did many other guys. I had social pressure not to date the girl because she was teased so much in the past. She didn't see herself as beautiful but it was obvious to any guy with any small amount of eye sight. When High School ended I never let her know, but I feel like I should have. She felt small and unwanted. That transfered into a life that was not suited to a girl like her because she didn't have enough confidence.

You look adorable and I would surely date you if I were half my age. When you go to your next school be confident in yourself and that will translate into friends and less judgement. Teens are like wolves that can smell weakness in others.

how can you callurself ugly but yet still have your username adorable????? youre fine hun trust me

HEYYY I've been through what you have but I got through it and also got someone to help me out with it

You shouldn't describe yourself that way you are a beautiful girl and beleive me the only reason why the kids make fun of you at school is because you let them you dont want to cry in front of them or let them know that you are sad you should show no attention to them and they will back off ! trust me I used to be that geeky curly haired freak who was never pretty untill my middle school year when people started paying more attention to me and realizing that I was a really great person on the inside they just never took the time to understand or ask how I was feeling! Now look at me I have had no plastic sergury and am in the best shape that I have ever been in my life!!!!! People started to understand that I AM a person and I really DO care and you should show that to prove them wrong! show them that you are the most popular girl in school to yourself and tell them to go perform an act on themself!!!!! lolz they are not worth the time of day sweetheart!!!

p.s My name is crystal
I am 5'13
I have blonde hair and am a DCC (( Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader ))
beleive in yourself even when nobody else can help!!! (( my motto ))

YOU CAN THANK ME L8R~~~~~~~~~ LoLz !!! j/k

LOOKS DON'T MATTER I am telling you this out of the bottom of my heart !!! the people that tease you are not your real friends so don't try to fit in and explain to these people how you feel but don't be mean back to them. try to make friends who don't care about looks. you shouldn't care tho and don't let it get to you or eveyone looks good in hollister so they are just being mean they wouldn't say that to anyone else so don't change your sense on style and your pic is NOT ugly truthfuly

Hey girl you are not ulgy trust me noone is ugly (only me) you can become a model and show everyone just what your made of. Keep your head up!!

Girl you aint ugly I am ugly. till you look close to me thats when your ugly.

OKAY WELL

IM 5'4 AND I weight 123 I DONT THINK IM FAT AT ALL WHEN I WEIGHT 117 EVERYONE CALLED ME TO SKINNY. SO YA your weight SHOULDNT BE THE ISSUE.

WHEN you START A NEW SKEWL HAVE A POSTIVE ATITTUDE AND JUST BE BUBBLY AND OUTGOING IT WILL ATTRACT MORE people.

IF people ARE ALWAYS PICKING ON YOU IT JUST MEANS THEY HAVE NO SELF ESTEEM EITHER AND ARE JUST LETTING IT OUT ON YOU.IF YOU ACT LIKE IT DOESNT BOTHER YOU OR IGNORE THEM AND NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU CRY THEY WILL EVENTUALLY STOP. THEY JUST WANT ATTENTION AND WANT TO GET A REACTION OUT OF YOU.

Of course you're not ugly. Your problem is your self-confidence, I know, lots of people have low confidence, but you don't need to ask questions like this. Everyone is gorgeous in their own way and these sorts of questions don't need to be asked. Love youself =]

I know how you feel right now because I went through it too and trust it's not a nice feeling but throughout all this you need to know one thing. Everyone has a unique beauty and trust me your facial feautures are beautiful. If people are teasing you then I understand that would decrease your self esteem to a lower point but don't listen to them the only reason they tease is because of their own insecurites. I know that everyone is different and some people have more self esteem then others and some less but you have to see that you have been created differently from others because your beauty is something special to be proud of as it is unique. I use to think what your thinking, but trust me the feeling comes and goes you just have to tackle it. You know, think of it like this, what makes you feel ugly? is it your face?body?... and then pick something about your face you really like like your eyes, btw you have really nice eyes and realise that your feauture is unique and beautiful and noone else has it. Like I said, I think your beautiful, Be Happy.

I taught my sista the tactic of just aggring with the person making fun of you.. if someone calls you ugly just be like yup I'm ugly so what does that make you then?

always try to make it look like the kids or kid isn't getting to you...

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KOREY

oh and your not ugly your very beautilful!

Your Stupid Your Not Ugly At All Your Gorgeous. I Know This Sounds Stupids Cus Mums Seyy All this But Half the Time They Do Do It Because There Jelous, Yeh Ignore Me If You Want But You'll Find Out There Are Babe. And I'm Not Gunna Tell You Not To Cry Cause I No How You Feel, Yup Cryy Do WhatEver I takes To get All this Of Your Chest But NEVER EVER EVER Agree With What Them t*a*s Sey Because Even If You Do Agree You Should Never Let Them Know. Just Be Strong And If Worse Cums To Worse Tell Someone.

Good Luck.
YOUR NOT UGLY AT ALL. x

Tell people who say that to you 'shut the f**k up'. First of all anybody can wear hollister. I'm black ,so it doesn't matter your skin color. Everybodys pretty

1) unless you're a vegetable, ANYONE can put on a name-brand shirt
2) I think you're pretty...like WAAAY prettier than me.
3) you didn't think you'd get away from this, would you? LOL...BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER!!!