Im scared to give a handjob. .. .

I been dating this guy for at least 4 months and hes fingured me and all that stuff but I feel bad that hes always pleasuring me but I don do anything back. weve talked bout handjobs, but im sacred to do it. . . what I don know how to do it right or if...

hell like it, how do you give a handjob ?

No one should ever pressure you to do anything! In fact, pressure is one of the best reasons not to have sex, or do anything sexual. You wishes are not being respected. Respect is one of the most important things in a relationship.

Whatever you do, always remember that you should feel confortable with it, and that it's something you really want to do.

If you decide you want to give a guy a handjob, there are plenty of other answers on here that will tell you how to do it. I have read some of them, and they are mostly correct.

ahh I'm in the exact same boat as you,really.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months too,
and hes fingered me plenty of times,and everything too.
But i havent given him,head and blowjob,and we of course havent had sex.
He says its fine and ok and everything,but im sure it gets annoying always being the one pleasuring,and nothing back.

Were in love,i know that for a fact.
and i know he wouldnt care if i didnt want to give him one,but i do.
i'm just like you said,scared too.
I dont know what the hell to do,or if he will enjoy it at all.
also,dont wanna hurt him,how embarresing would that be?

But from what i read around on here,most comments were go with the flow,thats what i did!
or do the up and down movement,and youll be set.

..i think i need more detail then that though to be honest.

yeah dude same here. I've been going out with my boyfriend for like seven months off and on, and I was going to do it the other night but my mom walks in, such a moment killer. god that sucks. I feel bad when he tells me he gets blue balls. Im not scared to do it. just scared to be bad. because he has had sex before... I wasn't to happy when I herd that. but w.e. So I dont want to be compared. I guess the more you do it the better you will get. the same with making out. it;s like natural, because like everyone does it. so it's like just go for it. I regret it everytime I don't do it.

***THIS IS LONG BUT IT WORKS, TRUST ME!!!***
alright.
the first thing you need to do is, get some lotion if you can.trust me it works better.Just apply the lotion to your hands bot dont rub it in. and remember to keep applying lotion dont let your hands get to dry.
next if your both want this to happen then you need to show him whos boss. be the one in control. Okayy.so grab ahold of his penis, dont just barley put your hands around it. it may feel of be weird at first. but get a firm grip on his penis, but not to hard.
next. you can start on with a slow up and down motion, then start going a little faster. then eventually start making a turning motion in your hand, while going up and down slightly fast. if this is good for him he'll start to twicth a little. gradualy get faster, and it will feel better for him.
then if he feels really good for him he'll start to cum a little, then eventually a lot.

well I hope this helps, and dont give him a handjob if you dont want to. and be in contol, show your man whos boss.this worked for me and I hope it works for youand your man.my boyfriend actually gave me these tips.