Should I stop having sex because of this anxiety?

ok im only almost sixteen and im really worried about getting pregnent. im not a slut or anything. me and my boyfriend of a year and a half lost our virginity to eachother and we havent had sex with anyone else but oursleves. but im still always so nervous. I was on the pill but it made me gain weight so im waiting to fidn a better brand. I heard yaz or somethin was good, suggestions would be great. we mostly use condoms and I still make him pull out. but the last few tiems we have been not usign condoms and just pulling out. but I heard about pre- c*m is that true? can I get pregnent from it?

also I heard that even if you dont skip your period you could still be pregnet! im really stressing out and my boyfreind says theres nothign to worry about. so I dont want to stop having sex but is it worth the anxiety? and not having a future..

its oaky hun, if your on the pill then its okay bc your horomones are already worked up to keep the speerm from hitting your eggs so you wont get pregnant. and about not using a condom and pulling out, yes there is a possible chance that you can get pregnant bc pre c*m still has sperm in it, but thats only if you arent on the pill. but you are on the pill so theres nothing to worry about =] dont worry hun. and if you miss your periods its probably from stressing too much. I've been thru this phase before so dont worry hun as long as your on the pill and still taking it then your okay. and I want to know what pill brand are you taking that made you gain weight bc im looking for a pill that makes you gain weight! im really skinny and I want to gain weight can you please fun mail me the brand that you take please? that would really help thanks!

If your not on the pill because your gaining weight go on a low hormone pill.you should use condomes tho.The pull out method is no good. My friend got pregnant that way. And no your not a slut for having sex so young. Im 20 and I started having sex at 15 also.

Well, I have a question for you.
Um . . .You said that you're only almost 16. Well your profile says otherwise.
But as for your problem, if you're having ANY doubts or regrets about doing this, then I think you should stop and think about having sex that young a little bit more.
No think about it a lot more.
Hell, just don't have sex that young. It's too young.
WAY WAY too young.

Of course your boyfriend says there's nothing to worry about. He's not the one who has to worry about getting pregnant and ruining his future.

You should back up to the days before you two had sex and do what you used to do to show how much you loved each other.

By the way, a slut is generally defined as a sexually promiscuous girl. If you STARTED having sex before you're sixteen, chances are you're more of a slut than you think. The way you perceive yourself may not equate to who you are.

The question is do you injoy sex keep on doing it. But be safe with it so you dont end up a mother.

Remains the condom.

You should stop having sex--PERIOD! You are so worried about getting pregnant that you are over-looking other things. You know what, pregnancy is not a disease...you can make it through that. I know you aren't ready to be a mother...but it's not a life or death situation. What you are overlooking is that fact that you could contract an Sexually Transmitted Disease. There are 30 types of those out there. 4 out of the 30 are STD's that the male partner can have or get! 28 of those are STD's that infect the female partner. You don't always feel sick if you have one. Sometimes you never know it until many years later when you decide you want children and find out you will never be able to have children because the STD's have destroyed your reproductive system and made you sterile. Another effect of the STD you could get is death. Is it really worth it? Do you want to take a chance at harming your body in such a way?
Condoms are a form of protection that actually isn't protection at all. Even touching the skin around your genital to each others can cause you to get an STD.
You need to worry about more than just getting pregnant, dear.
I hope you value who you are more than that. I hope you value life more than that and make better choices. The only safe sex out there is abstinence!

You should stop having sex--PERIOD! You are so worried about getting pregnant that you are over-looking other things. You know what, pregnancy is not a disease...you can make it through that. I know you aren't ready to be a mother...but it's not a life or death situation. What you are overlooking is that fact that you could contract an Sexually Transmitted Disease. There are 30 types of those out there. 4 out of the 30 are STD's that the male partner can have or get! 28 of those are STD's that infect the female partner. You don't always feel sick if you have one. Sometimes you never know it until many years later when you decide you want children and find out you will never be able to have children because the STD's have destroyed your reproductive system and made you sterile. Another effect of the STD you could get is death. Is it really worth it? Do you want to take a chance at harming your body in such a way?
Condoms are a form of protection that actually isn't protection at all. Even touching the skin around your genital to each others can cause you to get an STD.
You need to worry about more than just getting pregnant, dear.
I hope you value who you are more than that. I hope you value life more than that and make better choices. The only safe sex out there is abstinence!