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Does this myspace comment seem creepy?

Asked by fau about 1 year ago, 6 answers.
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I'm with this guy. He's 13 and he's never had a girlfriend. I'm his first girlfriend and like OMG. We're only 13. I'm going to be a freshmen in the new school year he's going to be in 8th and OMG he's getting really attached. This is what he wrote me on Myspace:

"also after highschool I get to take some friends and whoever might be my girlfriend at that time (hopefully you) get to go to my dads condo for a week.

Does that not seem a little creepy ughh. He's getting too attached telling me how he wants to be with me for a long time. WHAT DO I DO???

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Answered by pmsxd on Apr 11, 2007, 05:31PM
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You're his FIRST girlfriend, he's going to get a little attatched. Set him straight. Let him know he's being a bother.

Answered by darkangel_simpleplan on Apr 11, 2007, 05:39PM
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tell him stop or you two are over not that difficult

Answered by mamsgirl on Apr 11, 2007, 06:15PM
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straight out do what you want if you want to dump him then do . if you think its moving to fast then stop it . I would

Answered by tholovelost on Apr 12, 2007, 08:26AM
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set the boundaries, you dont need him to NEED you 24/7..that would b a bother..tell him to start d relationship at a slow pace, that might work

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Answered by krissina on Apr 13, 2007, 12:40PM
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oh come on this poor lad didn't do anything wrong. put yourself in his shoes..he just said that he'd take his girlfriend of the time, and he probably thought you'd like the comment he added. he must've thought you would feel jealous or upset or something!!
when you date someone at that age, you don't think it's going to last 'foreevverr' but deep down if your happy you don't want it to end either. so he wanted to make sure you wouldn't think he's thinkin about breaking up or so. (since he kinda mentioned future girlfriend's)

it's not like he asked you to marry him!! relax!! and as the others said, your his first girlfriend so it's obvious that he's happy with u. you can always talk to him to take it slower, but be careful not to hurt him.
good luck!

Answered by texaskimmie on Jan 17, 2008, 11:23AM
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It doesn't sound creepy at all. He said whoever was his girlfriend at the time. He hopes it is you, but if not it'll be someone else. It doesn't sound like he's too attached either. Everyone hopes for the future.

Would you rather he say: When I get out of high school I get to take whoever is my girlfriend ( I know it won't be you) to stay at his condo for a week.

That would be kind of rude, and he was nice.

Some people just look for things to be upset about.