Im pregnant who should I tell first

Im 4 weeks pregnant. The only problem is that my parents hate my boyfriend because hes 19 and im 15. I dont know weather I want to tell my parents before I tell my boyfriend. Theres another catch, I dont actually live with my parents because they kicked me out 2 years ago, so I moved in with my boyfriend. I know my boyfriend has a right to know but I dont really want to keep it because im too young and want to live my life first and he really wants kids now!!! AHH can you help me please

Dear helpisonitsway,
I think you should tell your boyfriend and work on getting an abortion because you are to young what are you in 10 th grade you still have your whole life and as for your boyfriend he could serve jail time for getting a minor pregnant.Let me know how it works out.

do not keep the baby. definitely get an abortion. your life will be ruined forever if you have a kid at 15/16 years old.

the real question is... why the hell didn't you use some sort of protection like maybe uhhhh a CONDOM ??? and what the hell are you doing at 15 having sex anyhow?

I did use protection and it isnt rare for people at 15 to be in a sexual relationship either. I have told my boyfriend and he was a bit gutted with my decision to have an abortion but he wanted what ever made me happy and he is standing by me all the way. I have an appointment booked to get an abortion in a weeks time. Thanks for you advise. It appreciated!

def. get an abortion. a child at this age will just ruin your life. go to planned parent hood and get it taken care of. good luck.

I dont think you should get an abortion, I think you should put it up for adoption. abortion is basically killing someone. if you let the baby live, it will grow up to be a contributing member to society, but if you kill it, you are ruining any chances of them growing up to make a difference.

well I know this is an old post - but in case it helps someone else. I was 19 and my girlfriend was 15 when we first met she oly just turned 16 when she fell pregnant with my daughter. At the time she was living with me and my mum. So we done the good thing brought the house and had the baby, and we were very happy - in fact the only diffrence to this story is we planned to have our first. My partner made a brilliant mum and I (I hope) a good dad. We even had the extra or my daughter being born early (3 months) but there were no problems at all. The fllowing year we had our son and again were very happy - although he was not planned.

My point is simply to say you must do what you feel is best every time. Me and my girl did split up, but after 6 happy years together and two beutiful children. Some times things are meant to happen good or bad - and shame on the people out there suggesting that this girl could not have been a mother, she wants support and advise not a 'ohhh another one - told you so' comment.

Again I say always do what you feel is right, you want a baby have it if not dont. You know if your ready.

I know this is really late, but I'm doing this for moral reasons. Abortion is not the best answer. If the choices are you or the unborn CHILD, then maybe consider it if there is no other option. Scientific studies show that 6 hours after conception there is a heart beat, meaning that 'fetus' is now alive, hence a child, a baby. Try adoption if you cannot keep the child. And I agree with some others with protection, use Birth Control, and a comdom...and maybe even go as far as douching after you have sex. Yes, I am speaking from experience. I hope this helps others, and I hope that I have at least changed a few minds with my words... and if no one believes me, the can look it up, 6 hours... thats all it takes...

If you know in your heart of hearts that you're not going to keep it, I wouldn't tell anyone. But if there is any chance that you are going to keep it, I think you should tell your boyfriend first because after all, he is the childs father.

I think you should tell your boyfriend he has a right to know, if you dont think your ready for a baby yet then explain to him how you feel and talk about having a abortion, theres no need to tell your family unless you decided you want to keep it or unless you want to tell them, but please think about this carefully and tell your boyfriend. good luck

get an abortion? thats crazy, there are so many wonderful people in this world that would love to adopt a baby. an abortion is not the answer, take it from me, my best friend had one when she was seventeen because her father made her, and she is now 29 and still regreats doing it, and she still cries about it to this day. she felt even more guilt when she got pregnant with her second child two years ago, because she had denied her first child the chance to live. please, concider adoption, these days you can do an open adoption, so YOU get to choose your childs parents. thanks

get an abortion? thats crazy, there are so many wonderful people in this world that would love to adopt a baby. an abortion is not the answer, take it from me, my best friend had one when she was seventeen because her father made her, and she is now 29 and still regreats doing it, and she still cries about it to this day. she felt even more guilt when she got pregnant with her second child two years ago, because she had denied her first child the chance to live. please, concider adoption, these days you can do an open adoption, so YOU get to choose your childs parents. thanks

Tell your boyfriend first. Im 16 and I was about a month and a half pregnant before I found out I was, I was nervous at first because I thought I was too young but as time went by I became more attached to the baby. When I told my boyfriend, he was worried but he later loved the idea of us having a baby.

We then decided to tell his parents first, only because of his age (he's 18). After that we told my parents. Sure they were upset but that's their grandchild your carrying and your their daughter. They may not like the idea right now, but eventually everything will get better.

getting an abortion is NOT THE ANSWER!!! okay there are so many people out there looking to adopt and NO thank you very much my mom had my first sister at 16 and it most definatly didnt ruin her life, dont listen to these people on here, your killing a child when you have an abortion. givve it up for adoption. do you people believe in god?

tell your boyfriend then tell your parents