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Im not ready shes crazy!!

Asked by thatnikkahpete 5 months ago, 8 answers.

Me and my girlfriend been together for only 6 months...I just got offf the phone with her and she told me she wants to have my kid and that she wants a fam.,..im only 17 going 18 but still im not ready for a kid...so I told her ..she broke up with me...

and she says I dont love her thats not even the case having a kid is a whole different story and im not ready to raise one ...and plus we only been together for 6month...
Should I try to find another girl or should try talking to her ..I kinda think she crazy the fact that she want to have my child I only been with her about 6 months any advise???

my sister(: shes the blonde one! i luff her Answered by listen on Jun 20, 2009, 01:29AM
1547 answers

ok I completely agree with you... you guys were only togther for 6 months...
and shes already wanting your kid.
your barly 17
you guys arent even married yet
do you have a job? does she?
if so is it enough to take care of this kid?
she sounds pretty immature if shes gna break up with you because your not ready for something as big as this... espicsially sence you told her straight up
if you think the relationship is worth continueing then I would say talk to her
but if your feelings werent that strong then its ok to find another girl, who agrees with you about the whole kid thing...
kinda like on the same level.

Answered by thatnikkahpete on Jun 20, 2009, 01:35AM
88 answers

lol I don't got a job even if I did its not enough to raise a kid ...and she already broke up wit me she think I dont love her because I dont want to have a kid with her ...I told her how I felf if thats not enough then fu kk it ...cause im not ready for a kidd ..

my sister(: shes the blonde one! i luff her Answered by listen on Jun 20, 2009, 01:38AM
1547 answers

yeah if she luved YOU, she would respect how YOU feel...
lol go get a job damn ithappy jk

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on Jun 20, 2009, 01:41AM
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it would be best to talk to her first
tell her about why you dont want a kid
because yes,
6 months is way too soon into the relationship to start considering having a family
especially at your age
so tell her about why you dont want a kid now, your not ready for the responsibilities of taking care of it, you do want them but later on, ect
and then if you want to work it out again, work it out
if not, move on and find someone who wants a relationship and doesnt want kids now

Answered by thatnikkahpete on Jun 20, 2009, 01:42AM
88 answers

lol on my way LISTEN lol=)

Answered by thatnikkahpete on Jun 20, 2009, 02:30AM
88 answers

were already having sex but I use a condom for a reason but yea every1 heres right...thnak every 1

Milan Answered by ifeelcrazy123 on Jun 20, 2009, 04:53AM
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I agree with the above.

If she respects you she'll wait, plus you're right you're way to young to be having kids.

good job on being mature though. happy

sweet girl Answered by sweetgirl1995 on Jun 20, 2009, 11:09AM
43 answers

u are right,leave her and move on!!! she is being immature but don't do anything like that,cause you are walking on the right track!!!

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