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Im kind of easy

on an island Asked by greek3nny about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

not in a 'I screw anything way' but in a way where if guys ask, I'll do it. Sometimes I don't want to, but I do it anyways...and I don't know why! I want to learn how to not let myself do this because I've hooked up with three guys in the past month and...

I just don't want to be seen as a slut...but I like guys and im always so tempted, even when I have a boyfriend...does anyone know how I can stop?

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 09, 2008, 01:05PM
53738 answers

okay, first of all your not a slut as some people have put it. second, try to think things through before you do them. such as what are the problems that can come out of this. your only a slut if you tell urself you are.

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 09, 2008, 01:13PM
53738 answers

cool, I have the exact same problem as her
don't even try to fight
you shouldn't call someone a slut or be mean to them just because they do things differently than you. don't respond, tinkerbell, its not worth your time trying to explain yourself

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 09, 2008, 01:04PM
53738 answers

don't listen to her^^^
shes probably an ignorant christian
its ok to experiment, animals were made to reproduce
just don't get an unexpected pregancy though if your a teenager
how to stop? just listen to what you think is right, if you believe its right to hook up with these guys, do it, just expect critisism because people will think it's their business

Answered by angelfire2708 on Mar 09, 2008, 01:51PM
7794 answers

Some girls are far more interested in the attention they might receive, and far more short sighted as to the consequences of their actions. If you cant just stop on your own, then you need to seek outside help! This kind of behavior will mess up your life. I had a classmate that was exactly like you. She was all used up by the time she reached high school. She dated a mexican, got pregnant in her Jr. year, then had a miscarriage. She ended up enlisting in the army.

Meeeeee Answered by rachitscottio on Mar 09, 2008, 02:16PM
86 answers

Its aninsecurity thing and I think angelfire2708 is quite right its the male attention you crave rather than anything!! Or maybe its to prove to other people you can get it but other people are cruel!!
My friend was exactly the same and she got older and kind of grew out of it I suppose you could say but dont ever call yourself ah slut because then ull convice yourself you are and your not!!

Danielle. :] Answered by brunettexxbaby on Mar 09, 2008, 03:54PM
59 answers

No no no.
Being easy isn't going to make guys like you more.
Being easy isnt going to get a guy to love you

It's being a bit of a tart .. dont go sleeping around and you wouldnt have this problem.

Answered by birockstarchick on Sep 08, 2008, 03:18AM
152 answers

my friend had the same problem. She went to a counselor and she concluded that she had 'daddy issues.' that sounds terrible but those were her exact words to me. She said that she needed a man in her life and since her father couldn't care less she looked for attention elsewhere. People have different reasons for doing what they do. You should see a counselor to see if there might be some underlying factor to your behavior. My friend eventually stopped her promiscuous (sp?) ways and found a man who treated her with respect and love. They married after three years of dating and had sex with eachother for the first time on their wedding night. They truly are the happiest people I know.

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