What if i love an older man i may never see again?

im NOT going to tell you how much older he is because I dont want anyone to judge me. I love him. he REPEATEDLY says he loves me. and I seriously cant live without him. anyone who finds thissick pleeease dont reply. because im fully aware of just how...

sick it is. I havnt seen him in like two weeks nows. pleeease help me! I feel like s@#%. every one and there nosey a@# mother is trying to keep me away from him!! and I miss him! plezz help me get over it! if I dont ill end up running away! with him!! heeelp.

Dear harmony,
okay...lets take the focus off of you and put it on him. There is something wrong with a much older gentleman who is interested in a young girl. This is not normal. You may be very mature for your age but it's not you...it's him. He would have to be immature or only interested in very young girls...and you won't always be young. The fact that you know it isn't right is sad. Running away isn't the answer and it would show just how immature you can really be...and this makes him look even worse and will make other even more against him. You will not find anyone who will agree that this is something good...even you don't think it is. Talk with a school counsellor they won't judge you but will give you someone to talk things out with.
Sue...good luck

hey, you live near me! anyway..if he's so much older than you, then I guess he can drive, or at least walk. tell his lazy butt to walk to the MARTA and take you out!

You may be 16 yo, and if the man is really older than you are he may get to jail if he see you frequently. Personally I unerstend that a 16 yo girl may love even a 40 yo man, but in certain countries this is very dangerous for the man. Think of this!

It is hard 2 get over someone you like. Try calling him. If his mom gets in the way, just ignore that b***c. She can't keep you away from him. Just do everything that is possible to see him. It doesn't matter if he is way older than u. Good Luck!!!

he's not that much older then me. well not jail time kinda older. its just that my family has a problem with me geting with any one who may even be a year older then me.

Dear harmony,

Well if he is not much older then you then that means that he is some where between fives years in age ( legal age limit in usa) ...which is good gives you more possible common ground...there is nothing really wrong in liking older men...it is only an issue if they like you back while you are still a minor he can get into trouble for it which is not right...some men are really sick...and like young girls for sick and messed up reasons I hope that he is not one of those..I know lady who is really close to me and is married to an older may he is 25years oder and and she is in her 30's I will not give you her age...I had a crush once on a guy who is twice my age...I am a minor though and he thank God did not like me that way..I was more of a littel sister then anything else...any way he lady I know she and her husband really Love eachother and they have a great marriage...they are not minors though and so it is not ilegal... I would say to just be careful.

Also whom you choose to love and choose not to love is not up to your parents remember that..but as long as you are living under their roof obey them..it is only the right thing to do.

Good luck
dark wolf