Im falling for him

I've fallen for this guy way to fast... When we met it only made me love him more
But the problem is
After being very intimate with each other, we started talking and he said that he could never say he loves me again... He honestly didnt really give a...

reason...
But he shows me that he loves me.. Or at least really cares for me
And on friday night we were drinking, we started talking again...which in my opinion, really sobered us up... And this time I told him to tell me things he doesnt love about me, he named 3 things off (stupid things) it sounded like he was making excuses to try and push me away(we live so far away) he started criing he hasnt cried sence he was 12
Then that night he wrote on my teddy bear, saying that he loved me...
Im so confused... Is he pushing me away or does it seem like he doesnt love me?

we didnt have sex.

Maybe he is just confused on what to do. Maybe he really does love you and cares about you, but fears to get too into it, just in case the distance or some other factor prevents it from happening. If gets really into it, and something happens, that will just make the loss that much more worse, and maybe he doesn't know whether or not you two will be able to overcome the problems at hand. Don't think he doesn't love you, that will only eventually lead to you loving him less, just give him the benefit of the doubt and think that he is just confused until you get a definite answer.

Best of luck =D

hmmm he plessured me...
more then I plessured him