Im desperate

Ok...it took me a while to figure this out...I thought I was over this guy..so, I convinced myself that I was...but, I've figured out I really do love him..but, I cant tell him b/c I know he'll reject me again...I've lost him once...I dont want to lose him again...there is just something about him...that I cant get over..somtimes I cry myself to sleep..but, itll cause problems if I tell him I love him...I dont know what to do...I want him more than anything else...but, im not obsessed..k? Please help..

you know britanylee, love is like a gamble you have to bet.. to know if you'll loose or you'll win.tell him what
you feel that will set you free... it will take lots of time to 4get someone you trully loved, and the worst of it you will notice what went wrong when he's gone.. someone has to make the first move, if you feel that you cant take it anymore go girl!!! why make your self suffer.. and if he rejected you,thats the reality we have to face... but for sure he will think about what u've said... the true meaning of love is 'you give love with
out wating in return, let me love you eventough you dont love me'.some are not agreed...BUT!
! believe me its happening.. hope it helped.. let me know what happen.. goodluck!

ok so you've dated previously if he dumped you maybe its a good idea to find out why tell your friend to ask him but not from you then if ts a reason you can work on tell him that im sure if he's reasonable he'll give you another chance
if you dumped him which I doubt since you said your over him but if you did he might sill have liked you but felt huurt by what you did explain you were insecure and tell him your sorry
good luck funmail me x

hmmm...thats hard since you dont want to tell him that you like him!!! well if I were you I would just tell him but you said you weren't going to do that but hey you nv know unless you try!!! hey tell me if everything works out tho

look, I know all about loving someone who didn't return the favor. I know its really hard, I tried getting with this one girl for 5 years, but we only discussed it about 3 or 4 times and she rejected me everytime. if you don't think he's going to change his mind you reallt need to move on. you don't want to do what I did. because I wasted a lot of time trying to get a girl who I knew whould never love me back, but I just couldn't get over her. im glad to say I am now, that happened about a month ago. and I've loved her since 16, I know its tough