Im 14 and pregnant?!?! please help!!

its been about 5 days... I have my boyfriend a bj and hj, nothing came out (or didnt think anything did) but then when you got home I wasnt thinking and did stuff with myself and didnt wash my hands. But im only like 2 days late for my period but my...

breasts have been hurting the past couple of days I've been having headaches and I have cramps and back pain like I usually do right before my period... but I havent had it yet?! I dont want to go to my mom just yet. But is there any possible way I could be pregnant?!?! Im only 14 :[ I cant b! please help

first of all you shouldn't be having sex at your age but wait about a week then go and get a home pregancy test once a week. to determene wheather you are or not.

Semen would not have lived on your hands for all the time it took you to get home.

well I wouldnt worry too much like I have a sister and her periods not always excat and she be worrying about being pregnant and at the end she wasnt, but I've read that sperm after a certain amount of time cant get you pregnant, im not 100% sure but read up on it, and that aside what can I say dont forget to wash your hands and be wise bout it lol
xx

The only way that would have gotten you pregnant was if you had done stuff with yourself right then. When I was 14 I never had a regular period. I didnt have regular periods until I had my oldest daughter at age 20. So, if you arent ready to be pregnant dont do sexual things. Because at 23 with two kids and one on the way, there is no way you are going to be able to take care of it. I doubt that you are pregnant. But dont be having sex at your age. Wait until you are at least 18 if you cant wait until you are married

*shakes head*

haha...wow...you should not be doing ANYTHING witha guy with you think its possible to get pregnant that way...my suggestion ...pay attention in health class this year...the ONLY way to become pregnant is if you ahev sexual intercourse not oral sex...that means his things has to go inside of your vagina...he needs to precum or completely cum inside you...but chances of getting pregnant from precum are slim...anyways he needs to ejaculatye inside of you. You cannot become pregnant from oral sex...it doesnt matter if he came all over hsi hands and then stuck his fingers up there with the cum all over them you cannot become pregnant liek that...you are fine and not pregnant...you prob missed your period because of your hormones and it jsut happenes to girls some girls dont get their period for months...calm down you are not pregnant and dont have sex anymore especially at your age or until you have been better educated.

NO you are not pregnant - sperm die when it hit the air let alone going all the way home! you need to be better educated before you even think about having sex. you shouldnt even be doing it anyways your way too young !

***it doesnt matter if he came all over hsi hands and then stuck his fingers up there with the cum all over them you cannot become pregnant liek that...***

Uh, yes she could...

nope nope and nope so chill out lol
you cannot get pregnant from dried sperm they die really quickly once exposed to the air so your symptoms are just normal period pains hope this helps
but hinestly im 100% sure that your NOT PREGNANT

I actually have a friend who was a virgin and was getting fingured by a guy who had jacked off a little before and she got pregnant and had to get an abortion. everyone whose says that can't happen, news flash, it actually can. I'm not trying to freak you out but you should def. make sure if you are or not. tell your mom if you are.
good luck!

captain...ummm no she cant...I know what I am talking about since I am a lot older than you and well educated unlike you...you clearly are too young to be having sex as well and didnt pay attention well in class so why dont you go become better educated or ask your parents about the birds and the bees and you'll see that I am right plus I had a kid so that alone makes me know I am right.

haha blueeyedgoddess just because you have a kid doesn't mean I don't know what I'm talking about. a lot of things are possible so maybe you should research a bit more before you go around saying people are wrong.

***captain...ummm no she cant...***

Yes, she can.

***I know what I am talking about***

No, you don't.

***I am a lot older than you***

WRONG.

***and well educated unlike you...***

WRONG AGAIN.

***you clearly are too young to be having sex as well and didnt pay attention well in class so why dont you go become better educated or ask your parents about the birds and the bees***

I know more about sex than you, and I know more about LIFE in general than you, among other things. The more you talk, the dumber you sound. So please, KEEP TALKING. Its very amusing.

***you'll see that I am right***

I already see that you're an idiot.

***plus I had a kid so that alone makes me know I am right.***

How exactly does you HAVING a kid already, somehow make you know what WON'T cause pregnancy? Just because it DIDN'T happen TO YOU, doesn't mean it CAN'T happen to anyone else... idiot...

blueeyedgoddess you obviously have NO IDEA what you are talking about and in your case I'd say the fact that you had a child just proves your ignorance about sex.

Let's put all the RUMORS to rest here...

if semen goes into your vagina you can and PROBABLY will get pregnant. and yes, semen CAN live outside the body for a number of hours. it's not HIV, FAU and Honeystar.

come on people...

Hey Retards who keep sayin stupid crap she didnt have sex with him she just did somthing to make him feel good they didnt have sex she just gave him a hand job/blow job
dont be as*holes
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chickie dont worry once sperm hits air its done its dead no worries