How can i lose this baby without my parents knowing?

Well, im a 14 year old girl, and im preg.. I dont know what to do. I know I have to lose it..-_-.. it hurts me to lose it,because ima mommy.. my boyfriend is ok with it.. but after thinking about it.. I dont really want tolose it.. but I need to.. I...

cant have this kid.. my mind is really messed up.. I need help please..

The first thing for you to understand is that it is YOUR choice no matter what anyone tells you.

You have 3 options. Keep the baby and raise it yourself, Keep the baby and let it be adopted, or Abortion.

The consequences of your actions are difficult to deal with, but if anything- tell your parents. They can help you make a responsible decision. Realize that you made the choice to have s*x, and that this baby is your responsibility. Whether your parents will be angry or not, they can still help you the best.

My personal opinion is keep the baby and give it to a loving home. There are so many good families praying that someone will give up a baby for them to adopt. Consider it. Abortion could be something you would regret the rest of your life.

Best of luck.

you will live with it for the rest of your life if you get rid of it. if you really wanna have it then have it but hand it over to child care services. but its your decision

Hey. Well im telling yooh that if you really want the baby then yooh should keep it but then you should give it to someone that would take care of it. but then if yooh dont want it then get rid of it.
Well I hope I helped yooh!

Hey. Well im telling yooh dat if u really want the baby then yooh should keep it but then u should give it to someone that would take care of it. but then if yooh dont want it then get rid of it.
Well i hope i helped yooh!

Well, my opinion is to at least keep the baby a live. I know it is really hard for you right now, but please try and bear with this. It is basically up to you. You have a choice. My recommendation is to bring this child of yours to a childcare service. Try find someone really close to you; that is willing to help you out on this situation. My last option you can do is telling the truth. It may be hard and I know you don't even want to tell, but I am just saying that if you are out of options, this may be your last resort to letting your baby live.

If you are having second thoughts, then you deffinately shouldn't get an abortion. If you are having second thoughts now, just imagine the regrets you would have later in life. I know it isn't that easy in life but it will be a lot better to just tell your parents. Parents have a way of finding out these things anyway, and if you do tell them they will be the only people who will be able to help you, even if they are upset at first.

Keep it. Keep it. Deal with what had happened between you n your boyfriend. Remember thats you n ur loved ones baby. It maybe rough at first but make a sacrafice because if you lose it you'll have to live with the guilt in your conscience.

keep the baby. abortion's are terrible. think about what one life can do to change the world.

thanks for all your guy's help ^^... it really helped with my choice

That is good that you know you cannot raise a baby at your age. I hope you will be more careful in the future though. Many methods of birth control are easy to use, free or low cost, and very effective.

You can talk to Planned Parenthood about your options. They can give you information, an abortion, a checkup, birth control, whatever you want.

Hey Girl,
Tell your parents... Give your baby the best gift possiable, a family with a mom and a dad that can raise them and support them. I can't have kids... My husband and I have adopted 1 little boy already and would love to adopt again. He is such a blessing to us... Let your baby be a blessing to someone if you can't keep him yourself.
My prayers are with you!
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Thank you everyone for your help... you all really helped me. i desided to have the baby^^

im happy that you decide to have the baby

hey girl, glad you made the decision,

if ya eva want to talk im here

let us no how ya get on

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I am SO happy you decided to have the baby! :D

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omfg are you people mad SHE IS 14 YEARS OLD SHE IS A CHILD I think you should get rid of it,it depends of how far gone you r.I think you should tell your parents they would be mad but they will understand your situation and be glad you want to get rid of.u are 14 you have a long life ahead of you to start a family just enjoy being a kid while you can it doesnt last forever.the doctors will understand how young you r and will support your decision but you need to go with your mum. if you r still in school how will you feel at your yr 12 formal havin a 4 year old baby every1 is going to schoolies and you will be stuck at home with a child im 17 and havnt had sex before im lovin life and just think about all the things you will miss out on.hope you make the rite desicion xoxox

me and this girl had an abortion it didnt affect me that much I mean I wondered what itd be like but im still way to young now but if you can live with it go ahead dont let anyone guilt you into keeping something you cant handle

excuse me peeps, but WHO CARES that she is 14!!!
If she was ready to do it then it's her choice, and her decision. It's not like she asked for the pregnancy to happen!!
One of my friends is a teen mom and she is great. She says the baby is the best thing that ever happened to her and anyway, since she is younger, wouldn't it help her have a closer realationship with the baby?
DEFINITELY keep the baby.You'll love it

MURDER IS NOT THE SOLUTION.
God has blessed us with free will. Of course it is your body and your choice. I can't tell you that it would make you a bad person if you choose to have an abortion. All sins are equal so when you laid down commited fornication it would be the same as commiting murder. God would forgive you and love you after both. However I believe that you can't end a life because it would be inconvienient for you. Just know that if you're scared or hurting talk to God he understands and he loves you. The truth is when you make a decision like this either way you go its going to be the hardest thing you've ever done. Just remember that a life is a life is a life. The beautiful person that may have YOUR eyes nose hair or smile. Do the right thing.

if you want an abortion you have to be someone 18 and up it dosent have to be parents or it could be a friend they have to have an id stating that they are 18 and its done