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Im 14 and my boyfriend is 18?

Asked by fau 22 days ago, 4 answers.

Yeah, he turned 18 in june and I turned 14 on the 4th of this month.
Im his first girlfriend, hes never done anything with a girl or even kissed on so yeah...and we arent going to do anything until im 18 or married to him or whatever, he takes things...

very seriously and he said he would wait for me...and im sure you all know that a lot of guys say that but hes like way different and it was kinda weird at first because I thought your boyfriend was always suppose to be mean to you and cheat on you...but he doesnt do anything of that. I know its illegal, and I tried breaking up with him about 3 times already in the past 3 months now...I've known him for quite some time...I just dont know what to do. And yes I look like im way older and im way mature and I dont hang with teens my age because they always act immature. But anyways...help?

flower Answered by zorbot on Oct 29, 2009, 04:39PM
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What is the problem exactly? You want to leave him? Or you are worried about your age difference? Or the legality of it all?
As long as you are aware that an age difference can affect your relationship in different ways and talk about it then this can be manageable.
As far as I know there is no law against dating or seeing someone older. The legals issues only start when there is sexual intercourse. So as long as you avoid sex, you are not breaking the law.
As for wanting to leave him, well if you feel this is the best solution then stop fooling around about it. Stop talking to him and tell him that it's over. Breaking someone's heart over and over again is very nice or very mature.

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Answered by icarewhy on Oct 29, 2009, 04:36PM
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so are you asking if its wrong for you to date him or if its illegal to date or its illegal to screw him?
make what you say more obvious to the question
btw I dont think age matters
and it sure as heck isnt illegal unless he is touching/ kissing u
btw he sounds like some one you really trust and you should definetly trust
sorry if this didnt answer your q but I didnt really know what it was

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not really me Answered by lodi20 on Oct 29, 2009, 05:24PM
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I think it's wrong, If he is 18 and he was dating someone who up until a few weeks ago was 13 it means he is a very immature and very stupid person. Their isn't a problem with age in relationships unless it's against the law... it's against the law for a reason and that reason is your boyfriend is a peadophile.

Answered by demikarayray on Oct 29, 2009, 06:32PM
439 answers

Do what you think is right, You so young your just a baby still but my baby cousin is the same way. She drinks and smokes and the whole works but you know what she said too me she told me she wishes that she could stop hanging out with older people and act young because shes only 13. And guess what my cousin has had a baby already. You should try to worrie about school and stuff like that not boys.
Yours truly,
Demika Ray

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