Im 14 and may be pregnant help

I posted one before but I needed to add to it ok so im 14 and got of my period about a month and a week ago or something and I still havent had my period I dont know if I am pregnant or not but if I am I kinda want to have a abortion but at the same time I want to keep the kid. my boyfriend the one that might have gotten me pregnant or my x boyfriend is 16 and my parents hate him with a passion. he is emotionally abussive and controling me and him went threw a lot. I dont thikn he would help me support the kid I I had it. thats what im scared of. I dont know what to do. I dont want to tell my parents but theres no way I can get any help unless I tell them someone please help me
how do I tell my mom I think im pregnant??
how do I tell if im pregnant??
n just help me however you can
thxx

along with that I also need help with that kid. im madly in love with him but im no logger aload too see him and my parents might get a restriaining order on him if they did that would the county take the restraining order of so he could help me raise a kid??
please help on this too thx

it could be that your cycle is just being irregular or you may be pregnant..if you are pregnant then keep the baby but get as much help from parents or people you can trust or a caring Christian that you may be able to find..you and your child will need all the support you can get..
you don't need anyone telling you to get rid of the child because that loss would hurt you more deeply than you could fathom..I shall pray that you be helped in every way possible..don't try to do this alone..you were acting responsible seeking help here..may you find what you need

You need to get yourself to a planned parenthood or similar clinic and have them help you do a pregnancy test. The boy who helped make you pregnant needs to be financially responisible for this child, if you decide to have it. You need to tell your parents.
How do you tell them.. You sit down and tell them.
You decided to act like an adult when you chose to have sex, unprotected sex at that.
Now you need to take responsibility for your actions, and possibly for the child you have conceived. It may be best to consider adoption as this will provide your baby with a
pair of parents that will want the child and take care of him/her. But now it is time
for you to stop saying poor me, grow up, and be responsible, and if everything
works out, learn from this terrible mistake, and DO NOT REPEAT IT.

Get a pregnancy test, preferably at a clinic where they have someone you can talk to.

Explain your situation and come up with ideas together that will allow you to deal with the situation AND stay safe.

The most important part of this is to have a trustworthy adult to bounce things off of, it doesn't sound like you have that in your life right now, so get someone.

Rmember through all the drama that everyone makes mistakes, and mistakes and sisns are not the same thing. Responsibly dealing with your mistakes is one of the most honorable things anyone can do.

okay I'm 14 too and I'm still w/ my boyfriend and me and him hgave talked about what we'd do if I was pregnant because I might be...................so try to talk to the guy and work it out w/ him and if you have like a aunt or someone your really close w/ tell them first work work it out from they're but I wouldnt tell my parents till I was sure I was pregnant and if they dont know u've had sex it might be harder

I had my first kid at 17. I told my mom I was pergant after I took a test and it came bacl positive. I thought my mom would hate me for life. But when I told her she was very calm and we went to the doctors and had a test done together. To find out I was already 18 weeks. So be the best person you can and tell your mom and dad. Its better to tell them sooner so you can make plans for you and maybe a child. If not talk aboiut getting on birth control.

God bless you and your baby.
I hope you are both doing well.
=]

hey all I will say is im 14 and im a virgine still but you got 3 choices
live wit killing a human being[abortion]
go through life wondering if every kid you see is urs[adoption]
or man up and tell someone and stop crieng about it and take care of this kid you created if you didnt want it you should of been more careful and you need to do that if your going to keep haveing sexual activity

Dear Love you,
Although this maybe a very hard place for you to be in at this time in your life there is help as well as hope for you. 1st. If your boyfriend is abusive RUN not walk away from him. True love does not hurt nor kill. Your parents may have good reasons for not liking your boyfriend and can see something that you may not see in him. God has not made you to be anyones punching bag and not to live a life that will cause you and your unborn child harm. Since we are not sure when we don't know when our time here on earth will end live life to the fullness and enjoy it. Give your baby a chance to enjoy this life that God has given you both. I pray that your boyfriend who has issues will find a way to resolve them and get healed from them. But you should not allow him no longer to use you as his sounding board. Don't get stuck with someone who will not build you up but tare you down spirit, soul and body. Father God in the name of Jeuse I pray for this baby and the unborn baby that she will find peace with you first and then with within herself. That you will show her your love and that it is unconditional. I cover her with the blood of Jesus and that you will keep her from all hurt, harm and danger. I speak forth into her life purpose and destiny that you have ordained from the foundation of the earth. Bless and keep them in Jesus name. Amen
PS. Don't forget that your parents really care for you and no matter what God loves you most.

B Blessed always,

Toni

I would find out if I'm realy pregnant or not then worrie about telling my mom. If you want the kid then don't worrie about the guy or what your parents will do. Work on getting a job of some kind and saveing up.

maybe you need to save up some money and buy a pregnant test to see if you r and if you r you should sit down and talk to your mom and tell her mom you may be mad and may not but ti was a acsident and trust me I will not do it again and I am very very sorry I didnt know I would get pregnant but now I need your help .But you might be and might be pregnant because my period dose not come till a month or two

im 14 years old and pregnant too
just tell your mom that you are sick
get her to take you to the doctors
and once you are there tell her to step out of the room so that you can talk to your doctor privately
tell your doctor everything / because legally they cant tell your parents anything
find out if you really are pregnant
and if you are you have to tell your mom, its not easy, but she will help you

oh dear !!!

stop destroying urself !!!

What kind of sucky community do you live in where parents are not aware of the fact that you were interested to have sex???

the best answer is...GO AND ASK YOUR MOM FOR ADVICE AND HELP!!!

well first of all.
if you JUST started your period less than a year ago, you schedule will be off.

you cant just rely on your period to tell you that your pregnant, I missed mine for two months when I first started...just to let you know.

second, if this boy says hes loves you and means it.
he will help support the baby, and if he doesnt. then as hard as it is
you NEED to cut the relationship with him off. its only going to be harder.

DO NOT have an abortion, please.
if you cant support the baby, then give it up for adoption.
if you have an abortion, your murdering your child.
its not right, so please just dont.

I hope this was helpful:]

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jellyfishjackie, that's horrible advice. she should really tell her mother that she thinks she could be pregnant. first, you have to know if you are or not. don't do anyhing until you'ce missed one or two consecutive periods. then check a home pregnancy test if you want, but you don't have to. have you been getting morning sickness? my friend who's fourteen too is actually pregnant, too. if you are, only you can decide if you want to keep it or not. you should really work things out with this boy before you come to your parents either. have him decide now if he will straighten up and participate (that's a weird way of putting it but yeah-) or not be part of anything. (that's even if you do get an abortion, he should still try to be involved) best of luck sweetie.