Im 13 but...

im 13 and I really want a baby what should I do???

I am 13 and I want a baby. So do I what to do?

Go to bed with a male and have sex. Do this frequently for a month and you are almost certain to become pregnant.

In nine months (when you are 14) you will have a baby. It won't be a toy that you can discard when times for its attention aren't convenient for you. It will be demanding and will tax your time and attention.

You will have to drop out of school to give the necessary attention to your child (unless you have a very loving mother who is willing and able to assist you) and you will find that the lack of a high school diploma will come back to haunt you.

You will also find that having a baby interferes with your social life. A lot of your friends will disappear because you and they will be living in different worlds and you no longer fit into their social scene.

Then we come to your boy friend. He either becomes less interested in you because a child doesn't fit into his plans and social life, or he attempts to fulfill his role as a father by getting a job (at the expense of further education) and providing for his new family.

Because of his lack of a good education he may be required to take second-rate jobs. Maybe his income alone won't be sufficient for the needs of the family so you will be required to work too which will create hardships for the child and will lead to family (relationship) problems between you and and your boy friend.

Then there's the possibility down the road that your boy friend comes to the conclusion that he has bitten off more than he can chew and he leaves (deserts) you and the child.

Or maybe as the child is growing you and/or your boy friend take it out on the child for the fact that you've missed out on some of the best times of your lives by having a child prematurely.

True, you, and maybe even your boy friend, may think right now that you and he are able to work things out and overcome all obstacles. That's a nice dream but the facts and life are against the two of you at such young ages and lack of worldly experience.

The two of you would be many times better off if you wait until you are in your early twenties. That really isn't so long a wait and it does give both of you a lot more time to get to know each other and life itself.

We often want what we want, right now! But, if we get it right now we often times aren't really ready for it.

Demonstrate your maturity by giving it time and growing in those ways and with those lessons that are going to serve you for the rest of you're lives -- which will be a very long time.

To sum it up, quit being selfish. Think about what's best for that potential human being's NEEDS -- not what simply satisfies your current WANTS.

 
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Think about the responsibility. Are you willing to devote your whole life to your child? Can you afford it?

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Dont rush. You have a really long life spend your time wisely Your only a kid once so leave what a kid does for being a kid and when your older you can have a baby. I really dont think you should have a baby I dont know you but I really dont think that you should have a baby. Please dont. Plus having a baby hurts you dont want to do that when your 13 so ya answer back.

...I can't even think of nice answer for this question

Babies having babies? Makes no sense...

Don't.
Don't even think about it.

You should realize that you're still a child. Being a mother is not all fun and games...it's really hard. There is no way that you can support a baby. You would have to give up everything for a baby...when you're a mother your baby should always come first. It wouldn't be fair to bring a baby into the world now when you have so much more growing up to do. Enjoy your teen years, you have your whole life ahead of you to be an adult, don't rush it.

what is this world coming to

get a plastic one first lol :L

You know what ... I'm 16 and know what you mean I have had the same feeling but what you need to understand is you are not going to be ready for a baby yet because you probley are not finacially stable.

You are going through pubrety, your body is changing because it is getting ready for motherhood later on in life.
To put it in scientific terms, your brain is releasing the hormone estrogen, which is causing your natural, motherly instincts to kick in.
Hopefully you'll be able to ignore your instincts until you're about 21, when your brain is fully developed and capable of good judgement.
Don't feel bad, every girl goes through it. Hopefully though, you just wont go through with it.

What would your parent think if they saw this?