What do you think about this little game that was played?

.what about if it was an sister 6 and her brother 10 and a guy friend 8 years old who did this. ill show you mine if you show me yours. the brother that was 10 has an learning disability and did not talk till he was five and that he learned this from other kids when he was five. my mother thinks that this was normal behaviour. if the sister told the brother that she forgives him for playing this game dose that mean he was bad. I talked to my mother about this she said what happed was not wrong but maybe a bit inoperative but the boy didn't know better. but this what kids do its a fays. there just trying to finger things out. and that the boy might have been ten but his brain was younger and slower then other kids. and that she don't not think the boy should feel bad about things. kids learn this from other kids and copy it its not about being a pervert but being curies about other parts. what do you people think about this I am not sure how to feel.

It is perfectly natural for young children to be curious about their s3xual body parts, and for girls and boys to be curious about the opposite gender's body parts. They'll outgrow it anywhere from four to six years old, but it all depends on what time they have new bodily "discoveries".

hey what do you mean about
but it all depends on what time they have new bodily 'discoveries'.

yuuup, all normal behaviour.
Its only unacceptable when the children involved are very different (mental) ages, because the older people have more power in the situation which may result in the younger ones doing things that they dont really want to do or arent old enough to do.
I guess this is what makes you feel so uneasy - not knowing how much control he had in that situation.
You didnt say what kind of learning difficulty the boy has, but I am sure it wont have done him any harm. It was possibly rather nice for the disabled boy to have been included in such a normal growing up ritual .

the boy with the learning disability was the one that said it (you show me yours ill show you mine ) the boy learned it from other kids at an young age. we don't know what kind of learning disability he has only that he was an slow learner. his grandmother gave him a talking to about how you can't have kids with your sister. my mother thinks she was overreaching and manipulated the sister into thinking this was wrong. and that the grandmother is Norn to correct thing in her own head that might not be true and then make it so. I do feel a bit that this was normal behaever. but aim still hung up by the different ages of which is really bugging me. the boy with the learning disability was not manipulating the situation and there was no touching it was just being curies. if the boys sister thinks it was bad dose that mean really that it was. your could it also be the grandmothers influence since they were close and that the grandmother had issues with males and was abusing the boy. I don't think it so much matters who said it first ( you show me yours ill show you mine it. I think we all were all young. aim only looking back to this so many years latter because know it is bugging me. I know that the boy came from a really abusive home and had a lot of problems . My mom thinks he was pleasured by others and didn't know better. the place where he lived was in a small town. really conservative he got labelled as an sick kid, but my mom said that's what these people wonted him to feel like. its easer to make the person who is already seen as different so its make sense why people that are ignorant about difference would make that person as the problem. This happed again when the boy was about 14 years old with another boy they were comparing parts the other boy was about 12 years old. the younger one asked why and the boy with the disability just said aim just curies. then his foster parents told the kids parent and she came and picked him up and the boy with the learning disability didn't understand why he could not hang out with him any more and no one talked to him about this. we latter found out that the boy with the learning disability when he was 17 he came out of the closet as gay.
what do peopel think about this all. I don't think badly about this person that I know really well

the boy was 10 but in his brain was at least 2 or 3 years younger since he stared late in life, but I don't think this was understood by others. I just hope his sister dose not think he was an sick person. I
just don't know how much control the sister had in this. I was told that the sister called him up to tell him that she forgives him for playing this game. so I gass the sister felt that she being wronged by this. but my mom thinks it could be the people she talked to. should I talk to the guy to talk to his sister and what should I tell him to say. I don't wont to think he did something wrong but the sister thinks he did. He told me that she is really conservative in her thinking. would talking to her just make it worse. your should the guy just let it be.

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Children look and sometimes touch- same in all cultures. These behaviours are not only natural but socially acceptable amongst the less fuc*ed up quarters.
Such inappropriate and irresponsible re- action of adults causes much confusion and feelings of guilt in younger people, which they often carry into their adult lives.

If what you suspect about the Grandma was true, she was probably acting out of fear and didnt know a better way to deal with what she saw. She may even have been feeling very guilty - like it was her fault that the boy was playing these 'naughty' games.
I can't tell you how you are all going to get over this whole thing, but please do talk amongst yourselves about your feelings and confusion, perhaps addressing the Grandma might help you.
If you like my responses to your questions- please rate it, otherwise I think I am not being helpfull or saying the right things and will become dis-heartened :-(

I guess there just curious.Don't worry too much about it.

who cares, if the guys a nice guy and hasnt tried anything other then that then I dont see the point in having split minds about it, its all just about people wanting to make a deal out of something that is nothing (mountain outa a mole hil) and that this kid really does deserve a chance, all explainnable in his gayness, ut his gayness doesnt change his personality or who he is so you shouldnt judge him. Make your own mind up dont let others do it for you