I don't know what to do

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend loves me and ii love him back but he has been waitin 4 me and he don't want to rush me but ii feel that its been a long time and ii want to and ii no I'm not ready ii don't no what to do help me please

I think you say you want to because you want to know what its like, how it feels. But then again the thought of you losing NOW gets you scared. The thoughts "what if I get pregnant" or "what if I don't please him" come to mind right? Mmmm thats what I kept thinking before I lost mine virginity. It's honestly up to you, if you feel that you can wait it out till later Props to you.If you want to do it, its your choice you know? Just as long as he doesn't force you to do anything is okay.

I'm sure he told all the other girls hes had sex with the very same line. You are so young. Chances are you're probably going to give into this impatient boy, because you want to "please" him, and/or because you dont want him to dump you. Wrong reasons for having sex. This isnt going to be your last boyfriend, so why would you give it up to the first guy who comes along? Save yourself for someone who actually cares/respects you, because by the sounds of it, he is just waiting for his turn with you. Then he'll move on to the next naive girl.

While maturity plays a large part in the decision to have sex, it may not be enough. Teens need to be aware of the emotional consequences of premarital sex. In most teen relationships, sex becomes the focus, and other aspects of the relationship have no chance to develop, like a friendship.

**Sex is NOT love**