How can my boyfriend get on my mom's good side?

Ok, well my questions before were based on my boyfriend with our age difference and so on. We have been dating now for 16 months and we are really into eachother and we just love everything about eachother. We may have disagreements and arguments here...

and ther but we just love eachother even more. I love him to death.

These 16 months may not seem like a whole lot of time to some people but we have been through a lot since our relationship has been behind my moms back. She doesn't approve of him as a suitable boyfriend because of the age gap. We both plan to tell her in a month or so (not about our secret but we are GOING to START dating). We know that we will still continue to see eachother regardles of her answer, but my boyfriend wants with all his heart to win her trust. He wants to get along with her and get on good terms with her. My mom claims that she will never approve af him and that there is no way of her ever liking the guy. Now my question comes to you all as: what can/should my boyfriend do to win my moms trust?

I can tell he is doing amazing at trying to win her over. some people just will not except love for what it really is. expecialy if a taboo is posted on its forehead. my boy friend is 18 im 14 and my mom hates him. I know what this is like. I dont live with my mom but she did at one time influence my being emensely. it hurt me so much that she hated him so much. and found our love so insignificant and minial so naturally when I told her I loved him she lost it.. and later on in life dictated to me that I was a mistake and she regrets me. he still has not won her trust nor does he ant to. but at all times does he do what he can to be as freindly as possible to her and her simpilton brain. so what my point is in this babbling is trying your hardest is good enough. even if you dont please your needs. and never give up.. I bet she will warm up when you got a ring on your wedding finger with his name on it.

Thats nice of him but the only thing he really has to do is prove to your mum that he is sticking by you no matter your age and that he loves you. Be polite to her and just give it time. In this case you just need time to prove to her that you's arnt messing around and that you are both serious about each other and in time when your mum sees that she will lighten up.

he shouldn't do anything. if he's a cool guy, he's a cool guy, and if your mom can't see that, then it's her problem and not his. some mom's never like their daughters boyfriends no matter who they are. maybe your mom is one of those moms?

anyway, maybe you should tell your mom that if she values the relationship she has with you that she should learn to accept the fact that you're dating this guy. and if she can't accept it then she is risking losing you because you're not going to date guys just to please her. remember.. YOU are going out with your boyfriend, not your mom.