I was four and still i'm not over being moleste

well when I was four my brother's friend started to ask to to come for a walk with him so I laughed and said ok and went off with him we headed for the woods and then he went extreamly deep inside it and asked me to take off my pants wondering why I did...

being four not relising what was going on he molested me there was the children's adi sociaty and him getting a restraining order from me but the prblom is that my Brother Ryan caught him doing it to me and then the person molesting me brought out a knife and thretened to kill him if he ever told anyone about this so my Brother Ryan is still his friend to this day but everyboudy in my family knows that because of this threat my brother has to belive him and not me I can't get over this my brother might accedently bring him hoem and he's dating my sister but they broke up...I need help!

That must be so difficult to live with. I can relate, a good friend of mine was molested and she avoided being raped. You should just find some really supportive people to be with. That will comfort you more than any law in the book. Men are so disgusting sometimes.

ok first of all u need to seek help...tell them that the guy threatened ur brother..with ur sister..what the hell..don;t allow it!! he might do it to her...thats not a healthy relationship..also u need psycological help...go to a psychiatrist and just reveal how u feel....get a lawyer....u need to put things right...u can;t live with this any longer...no one should ever take that right from u...if ur parents know let them know how u are feeling and tell them u want to do something about it...most of all keep him away from ur family and home!

I feel for you, I am also a childhood sexual survivor and yes, it is hard. The best thing for you to do is contact the authorities... which it sounds like you've already done. But sometimes the law needs a little nudge. Having a conselor and an advocate on your behalf helps alot. They really push your case and help to find evidence against the offender. Look for a rape and crisis center near you, they usually offer FREE couseling for rape and sexual abuse victims. They can direct you to the right resources. You may not realize how deeply it has actually effected you.

Sexual abuse is very secretive but perhaps your brother will pull through as blood is thicker than water. ( plus not only does this guy have sexual abuse and child molestation charges... he could have assault and threatening charges! )

this is terrible, i also was molested, its so hard to live with i havent done anything about it yet either im so scarred. i dont know what to do. but with this situation of yours him threatening you and goind out with your sister. no this isnt right please try and do something about it. please. my address is Fun mail me

okey. first you need to report it and tell the police that he sais he will kill your brother if you told. thats how you get him arrested