Is it ok that I like to have sex with my cousin who abused me?

okay here goes when I was 8 me and my because jonh where always playing around and one day we where alone and we where plaing around with his computer and he typed sex an a whole mess of girls having sex came up and he started to touch me and he put his hand on top of mine and told me to touch him, he slowly started to undress me and touch me and I started to like it so we had sex and oe coures it hurt really much and I started to bleed a lot and so ever since me and him had always had sex and really liked it.

So... what do you need an advice on? You sound comfortable with the fact that you come from a disturbed family. What else?

No it's not normal. You've been having sex with your cousin since you were 8 ? You don't even have to ask people, go talk to a doctor or something.

I don't see any abuse here...u really like it?...u are crazy..n that's nasty having sex with your cousin...I think is not cool that you come here tell people you were abused and say that you like it...that just disrispecful for the people that was actually abused...just like me...u better go and find some phsicological help because you need it...n I'm not trying to be mean but that's just sick.

I could care less if you and your cousin had sex but I dont think you should call it abuse if you like it if you like having sex with your cosin go ahead just dont tell people

I am wrong..I think you have no morals and values...u are having sex with your family...that's just gross but like bitc*23 said I could care less if you did or not...u are just some nasty girl...seriously..

There was a time when something similar almost happened to me. There is a natural closeness that you have with a family member, but I will say from the other side of it that it is not normal. And even though I think the responses that others had were rude, I do agree that counseling for both of you is probably a good thing. Another reason why this feels so close is because he was your first. In this case you have a double portion of why this is so hard to stop. The best advice that I can give you is to ask yourself what reaction your grandmother would have if she ever found out. And she would find out.

WHAT? Having sex with your own cousin? Y? Go see a doctor or something because that is just...disturbing...No offense!

WHAT? Having sex with your own cousin? Y? Go see a doctor or something because that is just...disturbing...No offense!

If you realy like it, than you really like it. You will not like it forever, maximum (let's say) 1 or 2 years more. But if you feel that it would be better to get off from this relationship then you should get off from it as soon as it is possible.

that is not normal, it is not okay. he is your cousin. but whatever floats your boat.

mate when you first had sex with him when you were 8, how old was he? xxx

well its not exactly called abuse if you liked it, but do you know what thats called? INBREEDING...im not being rude, as a lot of other people were. but I suggest that you c some one, or just try and separate urslef from him, and stay need some one, so they can witniss if he does something. just...STOP well I shoulnt say that...but just go with wut you think is right...

lol well you were 8 so I don't really see much of a prob with it as long as you liked it
and it isn't really considered abuse cause you liked it
actually I wish I was as close to my because when we were younger xD

you shouldn't have sex with him cause well its not good to at such a young age anyway but as long as you and him aren't 'fertile' if ya know what I'm sayin then it isn't too much of a prob as long as no one finds about it then you are going to get in soo much trouble

also you didn't say how old he is I am guessing he is about your age?
ya I remember that was around when I got my comp too lol

anyway if you aren't comfortable with it then just stop but if you like it then go ahead tho make sure that once you become( or already are) fertile he HAS to wear a condom

so in other words no it isn't ok to do it but I would do it anyway if I got the chance (at least while you are young

good luck and feel free to funmail me when it comes to cousins I I may not have done much but I know a good amount hehe

okay.
you liked it.. it wasn't abuse...
go to a doctor..
read the bible..
do something!
that's sick...
he is your COUSIN!
just stop!
what if something happned and you got pregnant...
your baby could have birth defects...
STOP!
thats sick... eww eww eww

lol well first of all to everyone else who posed here I'll have you know there is only a 3% higher chance of birth defects with cousins and MANY MANY of the most well known people (including some of the presidents) were married to their first cousins
it isn't very common in the US but it isn't really that bad(people just think its grose cause
nowadays in the US

tho having sex at such a young age...not recommended lol whether its your cousin or
or not

(people just think its grose cause nowadays in the US most people don't) lol

Well said haylebr...that's just sick and nasty...

that aint abuse if you like it yer I woz abused for bout 4 years and I didnt like it 1 bit every time I think about it it makes me feel sick and people didnt beleve me and said I asked for it but if you liked it and you r happy for it to carry on the fine wotever up to you but it aint abuse

Absolutely not that is not ok you need to seek help or something because that that is not natural. Im sorry to be so blunt but eww.

Ewww! THats IS SOOO disturbing What are you white trash???!?!?!

I think its hott. haha
If you like it, go ahead.

I think its hott. haha
If you like it, go ahead.