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I want to rescue an awsome girl

Asked by leosfunadvice about 1 month ago, 5 answers.

I have a friend who has a bofriend (complete waste of time) he keeps letting her down making her feel really bad and shes madly in love with him. at one point she really liked me at one point she was gagging to kiss me but another mate was in the room so...

couldnt I really love her and would make her feel so loved compared to that asshole, what should I do? this asshole is my friend too

Answered by zoeyredbird on Oct 14, 2009, 04:42AM
361 answers

go for it dude I bet you'll make her happy

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Answered by tinatodder4 on Oct 14, 2009, 04:45AM
2637 answers

sigh. unfortunately no matter what you do to show her her boyfriend sucks she's never gong to get it, until she figures it out for herself. because this is what us girls do. we torture ourselves with these idiot boys and we don't see the great guy standing right in front of us. we're just dumb like that, we really are. sorry. it sucks, but it's life.

I guess all you can do is just let her know that you're there for her if she needs anything.. but don't go on trash talking her boyfriend to her face. that'll only make her get angry at YOU. like I said, just let her know how you feel about HER (not her boyfriend) and leave it at that. you need to remember though that she's taken. so you can't expect her to just jump into your arms. so don't let it get you down if she rejects you when you tell her you like her.

Answered by leosfunadvice on Oct 14, 2009, 04:53AM
8 answers

I never talk to her about her boyfriend and she knows that I never want to. I do worry that one day she'll hate me because her scrawny boy really asks for it when hes pissed and oneday im gonna go for it and want to do it sad she will realise how much of a waste of time he is ONE day and that day I'll be there hopefully

Answered by warkawakr on Oct 14, 2009, 09:24AM

Well tell her as a friend, make it personal not as another guy who likes her but as a friend. Tell her that he's doing nothing really that is helping her or anything that is good for her at all. I think that you should just wait, if she is a really good friend, respect that she has a boyfriend you know? Then when the time is right everything will come together bro

Answered by colourofme on Oct 14, 2009, 08:19PM
133 answers

although she is in a relationship...do let her know how you feel...as you mentioned your current boyfriend is bringing her down so hopefully soon she will realise that having a negative boyfriend for her is not a good thing...she knows your their so thats a great thing...you never know you two could end up dating but the good thing is for now is that you two are friends and that you look out for each other...only time will tell...