I want to know how to be better at sex and oral

I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months now and I just found out that she has been faking it with me some of the time. she said that when it last a long time she loses interest. I was wondering what were some good moves where when I am giving oral, also what are good positions and what feel best for the her during sex or any pointers to help me with that.thank you for your input.

You know, every woman is different. You need to ask your girlfriend these questions and get her 'custom' answer.

Blessings and Good luck

I am actually writing a book about this topic, and yes you must ask your woman about her personal favorites. after all, most of what we learn as men is from porn. and trust me, that is not reality, when the book is finished, I will try to drop you a copy. good luck

First, you have to know that every girl is different, but one thing remains constant: sex (oral or otherwise) is largely mental. How many times do you think your girl has faked with you? If it was only a few times, then it's probably no big deal. Sometimes, it just won't happen for us, and when we know it won't, we fake it so that (and I'm sorry for the cynicism) you considerate ones won't be working on something all night that just won't happen. So I don't think I would worry about it too much. Just talk to her and see whats going on. As for sex tips: try eating her out sideways. Have her lie on her back and bend her legs so that they make triangles. Then stick your head thru the triangles and lick her clit from there. I heard that's a good one.