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I want to have sex but i'm scared!

I like playing with colours Asked by midnightcherries about 1 year ago, 10 answers.

I really like this guy and I'd love to sleep with him but I'm scared that he wouldn't like my body. I have a long labia which hangs down, I'm too scared to get rid of my pubic hair and I think I'm flat chested. I don't really know what to do during sex...

and I want to know how I can tell if something goes wrong. My parents might not allow me to have sex, but I can keep it a secret. And I don't want people telling me that I'm too young or I'm not ready because I really want this to happen.

Me.. Answered by sophie94 on Nov 17, 2008, 11:43AM
34 answers

you shouldn't have sex with someone to keep them happy.
having sex with someone wont make them love you, its about truly loving someone not just liking someone.
don't let people use you.
ox.

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35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Oct 20, 2008, 12:48AM
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You're willing to give your virginity to just some guy you really like? Seriously, you need to think about what you're doing before you make the wrong choice.

Newest Answered by babygirl1220 on Oct 20, 2008, 01:08AM
377 answers
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if youre scared then dont do it sex should be something that comes purely out of love and natural feelings you shouldnt have to talk yourself into it
also if youre worried he wouldnt like it cause you dont shave down there then ask him how he likes it before and then you either dont have to worry cause he doesnt mind or you have a reason to do it
remember its just hair wrose thing happens is it will grow back

but main point you said urself was you dont want anyone saying you are too young or not ready...if you have to say that then you know people are going to say that to you and if you know that then you must know ure in the wrong

give it some though remember you cant take it back

I like playing with colours Answered by midnightcherries on Oct 20, 2008, 02:09AM
234 answers

I really, really love him and I don't want him to stop loving loving me. I can't think of anything else to make him happy.

Echinacea 'Harvest Moon' Answered by pinkpearl on Oct 20, 2008, 08:27AM
2036 answers
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Sex is not something you use as leverage in a relationship. You are totally not ready to go ahead with this. Before embarking on sex, there is no anxiety, no pressure, no worry. You are thinking of buying his love with sex. Can you see how wrong that is?

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Nov 18, 2008, 01:31AM
53975 answers

Do sex becouse sex is life. I like your picture and you are sweet enjoy sex dont be affraid about is your figure is good. have fun!

Answered by neowind on Apr 28, 2009, 04:31PM
118 answers

anyway..you should be fine with your body..and that person who cares about you.when you go to that next step..they will love you for who you are. but first thing first..you need to be ready for your self. so your flat chested..dotn be bug by it.its your body love it!. my ex was flat chested and she didnt get rid of her pubic hair..and she was skin with tan lines..she told me she was ok with her self. I never ask her to change

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fam Answered by mr_baiser on Jun 21, 2009, 11:03PM
106 answers

best thing I can tell you is you should get rid of that pubic hair I don't know about the rest

sadface Answered by gazza25 on Jul 21, 2009, 12:58AM
24 answers

omg people are so f*cking shallow. If he cares about you none of those things should matter. Don't go and shave just for a guy. It's your body. Porn has warped our perception of what bodies should look like. Hair is there for reasns to do with comfort and pheremones believe it or not. Im sure you are beautiful in every way and if he was worth it he would feel that too no matter what. Though it doesnt sound as though you are ready for sex I cant sy anything that would stop you, but will say dont change for him or anyone. Be who you are, not who people want you to be

Answered by grrrness on Aug 06, 2009, 01:06PM
24 answers

You definitly cant do that just because you want tokeep him thats not how you should loose it

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