I want to give my boyfriend a handjob, a good one. - age 14.

I'm not too young, and I've thought very hard about this. He doesn't want me doing anything I don't want to do, and I'm not stupid. We've done stuff before, making out, touching, at one point I had my hand down his pants and with no idea what to do, I stopped, we made out and watched television again, as we normally do. Don't tell me I'm too young, don't give me a lecture, I just would like to know the best way to approach ths. Also when he tried fingering me I didn't like it, how do I tell him I would just like to be rubbed down there without making him feel like he's doing something wrong? Also, I'll be having my hand down his pants, since my parents may be home an usually are, we'll be alone in my room but we're doing this way just in case.

Its like impossible to jack off a guy without his pants down...just jack him off with his pants on (im pretty sure you will be able to see where it is) just rub up and down where his c*ck is and before you give him a handjob just guide his hand where you want it and take his hand and just rub where you want it but dont go in.. hope I helped lol

Justin's right. you can get your boyfriend off without putting your hand down his pants. It's up to you. Most boys his age will c*m from you just rubbing his pen*s outside his pants. But if you *want* to put your hand down his pants remember just go slow and don't squeeze it too hard! Hold his pen*is in your hand and lightly squeeze it/rub it up and down while you make out with him. I guarantee he will find it pleasurable. As far as him touching you, show him what you like by putting your hand on top of his and moving it how you would move your own hand. Be safe and good luck!