Should i have a baby when i'm 13?

um I need advice im so lonely my dad and older sis is gone most of the time I dont have a mom and im so alone and empty my older sis is pregnant and her friends baby is turning 1 but im so afraid about what my family whould think and about sex cause im...

still a virgin and I love baby's I took care of my little sis my grandma and my dog I could handle the running around but im so afraid I mean there's so many Q whould he like your body are you good or not or whould my dad kick me out stuff like that because my sis cant even tell him that shes pregnant what should I do

just cause your loney dosent mean u need a baby u should be older when u do cause u need to be a kid or a teen not a mom

You really don't want to have that baby now. It's not good for you body at age fourteen and it's almost like ruining your life because then you compromise your chances of going to college or having normal relationships. You couldn't support the kid because you can't even drive a car legally until youre 16 in my state and the kid would be 1 or 2 by then so you couldn't even handle the running around. It wouldn't take away your loneliness either. It might make it worse. You're family may not support you and your social peers would ridicule you and call you vulgar names more than likely behind your back. Having a kid now is for the wrong reasons and doesn't help you at all. Don't get pregnant because you're lonely. Do it with someone you genuinly love, when you can handle it, for the right reasons. So basically don't get knocked up yet kid

hey, I know how you feel, babies are SOO cute, I'm a bit older than you, and I LOVE babies, and I'm GREAT with them, but babies are a financial burden. That's why I'm careful. If you're lonely, hang out wtih friends, plan a weekend out or something. Don't go out and have sex, ESPECIALLY not at 14. I know that sounds you know, mom-ish or whatever, but firstly, it's not all it's cracked up to be, in fact it's downright disappointing, it's like, what the crap? that's ALL it is, how stupid, it wasn't even fun, well, I mean the first time...and the next few. Also, don't feel like you know, you need a kid right now. You're so young, and I'm not but a few years older, so I know how you feel, b/c I was the same at your age, and i thank my lucky stars, that i didn't do what i wanted to then. Your dad COULD very well kick you out of the house, chances are he'd just do that thing that dads do, that i'm so disappointed in you thing and then you'd feel like crap for a long time. Pregnancy in young people is terrible for their health anyway. My very young friend just had a baby, she almost died, it tears your kidneys apart, and other risks are involved too, look some of it up. It can hurt the baby too. I'm just letting you know some of the big information you should know. Be careful, is the only thing I have to say to you. If you decide you didn't REALLY want a baby, just to have sex, then I suggest protection, condoms (ONLY WEAR ONE AT A TIME, it causes defects in the rubber if you use more than one at a time and they're more likely to break), talk to a planned parenthood or something, and ask to be put on the pill, or get the shot or something, (the pill is harder to do, it takes a lot of responsibility). Lastly, if you decide that you're ready for sex, ask yourself this, are you willing to walk into wal-mart, and buy yourself condoms? If you can't do THAT, then you aren't ready. I just wanted to let you know these things, if you have any questions, or want to explain things deeper, just message me.

hello darling..thats the same with me! i really wanted a baby and at 14 i got wot i wanted! but omg i didnt no how hard it would be i dont get no time to my own and u do fink its goin to be sooo gr8 havein a new baby about im not sain its not its jus soooo hard and u might think yeye i no! but u really dont i love my son harvey to bits!! means the world to me i would be lost with out him now!....all im sayin is think b4 u do nefin bout it!..ur only 13! live ur life i wish i cud of lk ne other teen but i have my gorjus son and im happy =D do wot u think is best! 0x-x-x-x-x0

At 13 yo you should not have.

your still young, and a kid yourself. you need to grow first yourself, and gain the maturity you need, find a great person and get married and when your financially and emotionally stable have a kid. your only 13, and i am too. i don't have a kid, but really do you want to miss out on your own childhood. if your lonely hang with your friends, take a few activities ( if there is no transportation, it can be provided i think) but don't do something your not ready for.

NO

Why in the world would you want a lil demon? Your too young slow down and grow up it will go by so quickly and soon you'll be old enough have a baby. Look your young enjoy it, embrace it your not ready for mother hood I can assure you of that... Just hang on a little bit longer and you wont regret it that you did. Although when you do have that baby at this age your child hood will be gone and are you ready to bring another life into this world? I would think when you have a baby you have to be ready for the ride of your life another life you are to care for no exceptions once you have that baby your whole life is dedicated to that little baby... PLEASE DON'T HAVE KID AT THIS AGE!!!