Should i have a baby?

Hi my name is Lily I am 19 and I want to have a baby. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him. I know he would be a wonderful father. I am not woried about money because he has it. I don't know what I am thinking because if you would of...

asked me a year ago I would have said I dont want kids until I am 30. I need some advice.

u need to think about this becuz ur only 19 and it could be hard with school and stuff

7 mos is not long enough to be with someone and make such a big decision! Give yourselves alot more time, and see where things go...

IF YOU WANT A BABY THAT'S COOL, BUT ARE U TRYING TO GO TO SCHOOL? YA'LL ARE FINACIALLY STABLE,BUT IT'S ON GOD WETHER HE WANTS YOU TO RECIEVE A BABY,NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO,I'TS IN GODS PLAN,I GOT PREGNANT AT 17,I ACTUALLY WANTED A BABY AT 17 AND I PRAYED FOR MY BABY EVERY DAY AND GUESS WAT? IT HAPPEN!!! ME AND MY B/F OF 4YRS HAD A BEAUTIFAL LITTLE BOY HIS NAME IS SINAI AND I'M PREGNANT AGAIN I FOUND OUT A FEW WEEKS AGO,I'M NOT GONNA JUDGE YOU OR CRITICIZE YOU,NOT IN MY NATURE,BUT WHATEVER YA'LL FEEL THAT'S BEST FOR YOU GUYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART,ANG GOD IS GONNA BLESS YOU WITH A BEAUTIFAL BABY,I'M NOT GONNA TELL YA'LL,''OH YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED'' OH THIS,OH THAT'' YOUR 19 AND YOU DO WHAT YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO DO,AND IF YOU FEEL YOU WANT A BABY,WELL HEY,THAT'S YOUR CHOICE,ME I'M 19 GOING ON 20 AND I CHOOSE TO HAVE MY BABIES,AND THERE'S NOTHING NOBODY COULD DO ABOUT IT. BUT LIKE I SAID FOLLOW YOUR HEART HON,FOR REAL,KNOW WHAT YOU WANT,I WISH YA'LL THE BEST OF LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!!!!

Ok..You say that YOU want a baby, but the question is does HE want that baby too? Think about it...if ur the only one that wants it, even though he is financially stabled what makes you think he would help support it...plus u have only been dating 7 months so u can't possibly tell if he's the one yet...I wish u the best of luck, but think about it...

wait till you are married.

First discuss this with your b/f. Your age 19 is just okay for having the first baby, if you plan e.g. three. But you may also wait let's say 2 years if you can do something else that is interesting for you. E.g. sport, travelling, learning, dancing, flirting etc. But if you do not have any other (and real ! ) interest, then having the bay seems to be the best.

Thank you guys so much for your advice. I will definitely wait because there are so many things I want to do while I'm young, my life is barely starting off. I just needed someone to pull me out of the clouds for a moment. Thank you all!

yes

I'm 18yrs old and I'm not sure if I want a kid or not but I constantly think about it everyday...my b/f is 20 going on 21 and he's not ready for it but if things hapen things happen you can't really change anything... follow your heart and do what you think is best.. I would also talk it over with your b/f maybe he's like my b/f and just not ready for it yet but also at the same point of if things happen then they happen...