I've 86'd my fiance's dad from our life

My future father in law stole what little I own..I was homeless at the time and my fiance had been taken to jail. I can't get my things back and his father has threatened me if I report or bring heat to him for having done this to me. My fiance is furious but his father has cancer..and was never a good dad or person, and I think my man really needs to try and figure this out before his dad passes away..I refuse to let this idiot near our home when my fiance returns from jail. I have told my man he is not to come near me ever, or know where we live, etc..I do not trust or respect him. My fiance is abiding because he doesn't want to lose me, but I feel bad because family is family regardless....should I ease up?

Paula

u need to talk to police or something this can get worst and you need to setal this very carefully you might get in more trouble even worst danger!

Don't let his illness control the situation. (My father passed away from cancer, we did not have a good relationship.) If you can not get the thing that he has taken from back, then let that go, BUT if any other incidents happen, take care of them the legal way. As far as your fiance' it seems that he understands and yes he needs to be a peace with himself before his father passes. As long as your fiance' tries wholeheartedly to work things, whether it turns out good or bad, at least he tried. Do not let this man threaten, steal or harrass you in any way.

Good Luck!

Thanks to both of you...it helps to hear that what I feel is justifiable

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