I took it both ways

when I was in fourth grade, a camp counselor(female)felt my chest and nipples up until I felt I would die. who could I tell? the shame of such a thing occurring was unbearable. my uncle by marriage not only felt my breasts on numerous occasions, but...

tried to get me to shower with him on many other occasions. My aunt and mother KNEW what was happening. As a teen, my mother had awakened from a party with my uncles penis in HER FACE. Maybe a hint that she should keep her female children away from him? apparently not. I fucking hate all of them.

dealing with all this by yourself has no doubt been hard
but its time to get it off your chest, speaking up about what happened is one of the best things you can do, and it will make you feel a whole lot better
the councellor took advantage of you and your uncle is just sick and should be put in jail
tell someone you trust, like a parent, relative, teacher or friend and then see a profesional, like a councellor, or perhaps talk to a doctor first so they can help you and help you find a good councellor
its unfortunantly probably too late for anything to be done, but nevertheless, go to the police and tell them what your uncle did to you, if you can, ask your relatives to confirm what he did, because he needs to be put away or at least punnished
also if your uncle had sex with you then thats rape and thats definantly something to tell the police about